Oh, and Yelena, I was 17 by the time my daughter was born. I did not have the oppertunity to go out on weekends with friends, go on float trips with my buddies, or for that matter, anything else a NORMAL 17 year old would do! No, not all 17-18 year olds are irresponsible. I considered myself a very responsible teen, however, going to the occasional party would have been fun. I did not go to my Senior Prom cuz I did not have a baby sitter. I could not go to post graduation parties, cuz my infant was sick. She is not taking the negative side, she's taking the real side. Ypu did not experience what we did, do you can just go join the I'm old and can't get pregnant forum XD . How do you get pregnant, really? SEX. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. Be an adult, think about every possible scenario girls. Live life! Have fun, and then when it's time, have that baby! It will be better for you if you wait.
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Ya know...I have a blog...
I talk about how hard it was as a teen mom. Maybe some of you girls should check it out.
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I talk about how hard it was as a teen mom. Maybe some of you girls should check it out.
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Thank you MrsT! I'm not trying to be harsh but I just obviously can't stress this enough. It is hard and very emotional. My son will be 1 years old in less than 2 weeks and I'm already crying like a little baby bc he is growing up so fast. I just wish our daughter was here too. But there is a reason God took my our daughter away from my husband and I. God knew we could take care of one baby but not two. But I know that God will give us our daughter back one day when we are ready!!!!! Everynight my husband and I got out to the rose bush we planted in remembrance of our daughter and we talk to her. And we look up to the brightest star in the sky and tell her goodnight and we love her and we will see her soon. :'( :-)
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''Ypu did not experience what we did, do you can just go join the I'm old and can't get pregnant forum''
Is it mean THIS FORUM only for teenmoms?
Is it mean THIS FORUM only for teenmoms?
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Don't ask how I stumbled across this :-)
Just wanted to back up teenmom here. She offers a lot of good advice across the whole website and in doing so selflessly gives up hours of her own time, just to help out other people.
And to be completely honest, Yelena, your post was hugely disrespectful to say the least. If you don't agree with something, then by all means explain your opinion but there is a better way to do it and a personal attack can never be justified.
Just wanted to back up teenmom here. She offers a lot of good advice across the whole website and in doing so selflessly gives up hours of her own time, just to help out other people.
And to be completely honest, Yelena, your post was hugely disrespectful to say the least. If you don't agree with something, then by all means explain your opinion but there is a better way to do it and a personal attack can never be justified.
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I undestood, I have to leave this forum and go to other one(for older women), because someone didn't like my opinion. ? :-(
I didn't critisize anybody.I think, everyone has right to give an advice, even if I'm not agree with that?! :-)
I didn't critisize anybody.I think, everyone has right to give an advice, even if I'm not agree with that?! :-)
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This is ,probably, my language yet...
''it this forum only for moms, who is teenagers, and I have to go to older woman forum?''
This is exactly, what I mean.
''it this forum only for moms, who is teenagers, and I have to go to older woman forum?''
This is exactly, what I mean.
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Yelena1964 wrote:
No, what I'm saying is don't encourage teenagers to start familes if you don't understand the hardship they will endure.
Is it mean THIS FORUM only for teenmoms?
No, what I'm saying is don't encourage teenagers to start familes if you don't understand the hardship they will endure.
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I undestand, what you mean, and it's great -if you are sharing your experience with other,but Why you send me to other forum?
Am I absolutely have to have your experience to be on this forum?Pls,explain.
Also, I don't see any reason to be angry about other people's posts (this is for teenmom17) :D All people are different,same with their opinions. :)
Am I absolutely have to have your experience to be on this forum?Pls,explain.
Also, I don't see any reason to be angry about other people's posts (this is for teenmom17) :D All people are different,same with their opinions. :)
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Well I gave my opinion and shared my experiece to try and encourage and let them see how hard it is. Like KingFreeze said I have been on here for a while and I do help as much as I can. And yes I disagree with things but I'm not going to sugarcoat something for somebody no matter what the age. We come on here to get advice (that is what the website is for.) And for you to encourage teenagers to go ahead and try to have a child is not very mature on your part. You do not know what it is like to be a teenage mother and you never will. So when us TEENMOMS get on here and see something like this then we have the right to give out opinion and our story. And try to help these people help themselves. We are only here to help and to give our opinion but it doesnt matter till we are blue in the face. They will still make there own desicion. We cant be right beside them and put a gun to there head and tell them to do this or that but we can help them as much as we can. So all I did was give my opinion and my story to try to help. But you really have no right telling me that I am in the wrong when I am going through the experience hands on right now. So I know how it is and what they will go through. :-D
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Hello,
After reading this with my wife, Teenmom17, I decide, oh hell no. You see the comment in red, good. Now to the russian woman. This comment will be for you. See, we wanted to get prego, we want a child, and at the time it was a really good idea. WRONG!! Let me tell you something about getting prego at the time we did, it was the start of an economy break down. So guess what, I have a JOB working 20 hours a week, I make hardly no cash to support a child, I live at home with my parents, Two Families, One House, Bad Combo! As teenage parents our lifes are so hard. This is why we are saying WAIT!!!! It is not to tell this young woman to not get prego, I honestly dont care a flip, in fact I prolly would not had created an account if it were not you running your mouth about what I qoted.
1. We are married, and Happy (Teenmom, was VERY LUCKY, that I was not a p***y. I stood up to what I promised, in fact through a 5 year scholarship away to be a father. Not saying I regret my son, cuz he is the best thing in my life. BUT IF I WOULD HAD WAITED! My son would never have to worry about anything. HE would be able to have nice new things, instead of stuff out of consiment shops!)
2. You really should not judge a person over the internet, you know nothing of the hardships they are going through, If they give there advice on something, it is BECAUSE THEY KNOW,
2.A If you reply to a post that you know nothing about, well your . =P
So there you go, if you have another Smartass comment as posted above, I can back it up...
Thanks,
Teendad
And to the author of this post,
You can do what ever you want, But if you want your child to have nice things, and other stuff. I suggest you wait, I know you want a child, and I am sure you would be an awesome mom. I would wait, When God is ready, it will happen, so dont worry on it.
To everyone else,
Sorry you have to hear my fussing =P
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After reading this with my wife, Teenmom17, I decide, oh hell no. You see the comment in red, good. Now to the russian woman. This comment will be for you. See, we wanted to get prego, we want a child, and at the time it was a really good idea. WRONG!! Let me tell you something about getting prego at the time we did, it was the start of an economy break down. So guess what, I have a JOB working 20 hours a week, I make hardly no cash to support a child, I live at home with my parents, Two Families, One House, Bad Combo! As teenage parents our lifes are so hard. This is why we are saying WAIT!!!! It is not to tell this young woman to not get prego, I honestly dont care a flip, in fact I prolly would not had created an account if it were not you running your mouth about what I qoted.
1. We are married, and Happy (Teenmom, was VERY LUCKY, that I was not a p***y. I stood up to what I promised, in fact through a 5 year scholarship away to be a father. Not saying I regret my son, cuz he is the best thing in my life. BUT IF I WOULD HAD WAITED! My son would never have to worry about anything. HE would be able to have nice new things, instead of stuff out of consiment shops!)
2. You really should not judge a person over the internet, you know nothing of the hardships they are going through, If they give there advice on something, it is BECAUSE THEY KNOW,
2.A If you reply to a post that you know nothing about, well your . =P
So there you go, if you have another Smartass comment as posted above, I can back it up...
Thanks,
Teendad
And to the author of this post,
You can do what ever you want, But if you want your child to have nice things, and other stuff. I suggest you wait, I know you want a child, and I am sure you would be an awesome mom. I would wait, When God is ready, it will happen, so dont worry on it.
To everyone else,
Sorry you have to hear my fussing =P
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I think that there should be no arguing here because we have two different opinions here viewed from two different perspectives. You have to understand that there should be no judging here, just giving your opinion and advices.
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''But you really have no right telling me that I am in the wrong''
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I'm sorry, but you started to critizice me first. Look at your very first post right after mine????? And you told you're ANGRY.???
And ,pay attention, I'm not ONLY, who gave to author the same advice with me.
I'm agree, I don't have your experience, but you don't have mine either.???
That's great, if you have a nice partner, who support you. I just didn't know about it. For me your posts sounds unhappy and I felt like you very sorry about what you did,you're tired, upset, and alone...That's why i wished you to have some help :-)
The red_dark absolutely right-it can be 2 different opinion and i don't want to argume anymore.
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I'm sorry, but you started to critizice me first. Look at your very first post right after mine????? And you told you're ANGRY.???
And ,pay attention, I'm not ONLY, who gave to author the same advice with me.
I'm agree, I don't have your experience, but you don't have mine either.???
That's great, if you have a nice partner, who support you. I just didn't know about it. For me your posts sounds unhappy and I felt like you very sorry about what you did,you're tired, upset, and alone...That's why i wished you to have some help :-)
The red_dark absolutely right-it can be 2 different opinion and i don't want to argume anymore.
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I ll tell you what. YOU SEE THE THING IN RED, YOU ASSUMED MY WIFE HAD NO PARTNER.
So I am telling you dont talk c**p to my wife, when it for one was off topic. Two you know nothing about her.
So the Argument is done.
Thanks,
Teen Dad
So I am telling you dont talk c**p to my wife, when it for one was off topic. Two you know nothing about her.
So the Argument is done.
Thanks,
Teen Dad
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Want to know why, ...... Cause you are 17 and need to finish school and get a freaking job!!! Thats why!!
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