Just make sure you are alone and cannot be disturbed, then take your penis in your hand and move your hand up and down. You can also play with your balls, rub your shaft, or anything else that feels good to you. If you wish, think about things that make you have that urge, and just relax and enjoy touching yourself. As you get older, moving your hand up and down will give you a feeling of pressure, like you need to pee but different, and that is the approaching of a climax. Keep enjoying it and the climax will make you feel incredible. It's your penis, so enjoy it. Hope that helps.
Well I'm 13 as well and I just put my hand flat, put my penis up against myself and stroke my hand up and down my penis. You might want some tissues along side you in case you get some cum. Where to do it you ask, well I do it in my bed at night and in the shower. By the way you might just like to have some moisturiser on your penis so you don't get a rash on you penis.
Failure to use lubrication when needed will cause friction irritation and pain in the penis.
The best lubrication for masturbation is the human foreskin. The highly innervated, erogenous foreskin is secured only at each extremity and is not attached to the underlying shaft of the penis. It is internally lubrication with lymphatic fluid and glides up and down the shaft of the penis without friction. The foreskin is filled with pleasure nerves that are stimulated by motion. This makes it ideal for masturbation.
If one ‘s penis has been deforeskined, the shaft skin is shortened, which makes it taut and immovable, so more force is necessary. Nineteenth Century doctors thought that would make masturbation impossible. It did not make impossible but it made it harder to do and less fun.
If you don’t have a foreskin, then you will need external lubrication to compensate for your loss. You will need to learn to slide your hand up and down the shaft.
Some males use a personal lubricant, which is designed to provide lubricant for sexual intercourse. There is no age restriction on its purchase.
Others may use petroleum jelly, such as Vaseline (which is greasy), baby oil, vegetable oil, olive oil, or saliva. Some foreskinned males also like to use lubrication, although it is not strictly necessary.
Products with harsh and irritating chemicals should be avoided. Shampoo and body wash have been reported to cause irritation and should not be used.
Unforeskinned males who try to masturbate without lubrication are likely to suffer friction irritation and pain. If that happens, then you may put some Jergen’s hand lotion on your penis to soothe it. It should get back to normal in about a week.
I'm almost 13 years old and I can't find a safe way to masturbate without making a mess or getting caught
You may do it in the shower.
You may do it in bed at night and shoot your load into a sock.
You may do it while you are on the toilet.
I want to know what I should masturbate to. I am also 13. :
Try your imagination. Think about sexual things you would like to do.
guy!!!!!im 13 id use a rubber glove and lube it made me cumm it was white and clear.... it feelt awesome ^^)
Im also 13! I have been masturebating for about 3 months. Since i have began i feel so much better. I masturebate late at night or in the shower to avoid being caught. I find the best soulution is to get lotion from your mom or buy some and put in on your penis and balls. Rub uo and down on the penis slowly then fast until you get an erection. Then rub faster until you cum. You will feel so much better. Good luck.
Lucky I wish I did
Then just do it in the shower or go over to a friends house and do it ther i do it all the time and if they do walk in when your doing it look um in the eye and finish.
It hurts a little but in a good feeling way.