as a girl who is 19 and her boyfriend is 23, they are both virgins and the guy is ready to loss his virginity for her but the girl is not ready to loss hers, can they have anal sex instead of virginal sex in order to satisfy the guy?
It just depends on what the problem is, can it not get hard? Does it only stay hard? You might have to position it a certain way for it to calm down if that is one of the problems.