I'm 19 years old and on March 4th I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I didn't bleed at all but it hurt so much!!! He had to stop and let me adjust to his size because he was quite big. We had sex a couple more times and we never used protection but he never came inside me. I noticed going to the bathroom I had light spots of blood. Then Today, Marh 8th, I masturbated with my dildo and ever since then I've been bleeding and it hurts to pee! There's small chunks of blood that comes out... Did I rip my own hymen? Or did he already rip it and I aggravated it enough to bleed? I'm so scared and I can't tell my mom because we're Christians and shed hate me and call me a s*** for having sex with him.....please HELP! I'm afraid!
If the bleeding doesn't stop very very soon you will have to see a gynecologist - you are 19, you don't need your mom to do that. Its probably that your vagina was a little bit irritated after sex and you made that worse when you masturbated. You do realize that you can't just keep waiting, if it hurts for more than a day or two, especially if it also hurts when you pee, than there are chances that there is some injury or infection and you have to get treated for that.