I am a 53 year old woman who had 1 child 33 years ago. About 10 years ago my husband and I started having intimacy problems even with touching and kissing. This all revolved around much larger issues in our marriage. As time went by things got much worse in the bedroom to the point where we were only having sex once or twice a year. For the first 10 years of our relationship we had great, mutally satisfying sex. Now I have been trying to rekindle a sex life for my husband and I as we both have been seeing separate therapists for our general, individual issues as well as our marital problems. My husband has a hard time getting an erection and maintaining it. I know that he has an enlarged prostate but he doesn't seem to have any problems masturbating, his problem seems to be with me. The first time that I broached the problem with him, (several days after an unsucessful love-making session), he told me that it was my fault and he said "Your c**t has gotten too big and very slack". My question is: is this possible and if so, what can I do about it?
i think your husband is the problem NOT YOU!im so sick of men telling us we are the problem in the bedroom-TELL HIM THAT HE IS THE PROBLEM IN THE BEDROOM AND IF YOUR VAGINA IS TOO BIG THEN HIS PENIS HAS SHRUNK (yes,it happens)