help!?!
i have the same problem. im extremely self-concious about it. its a curse i hate it
im too embarrassed to tell anyone, not even my parents. and even if i did tell them we cant afford labia surgery. it makes me really uncomfortable. i hate it so much. its not a blessing its like a ***edited by moderator*** ** inappropriate posting** you from god.
It's YOUR body and YOU get to decide what you want done. Be sure to discuss it with the surgeon and ask to see pictures of his/her previous work.
I can't help thinking most of the complaints and horror stories I read could have been avoided if they had done the research.
:| i have the same problem it sux im scared to tell my parents or to have a doctor look down there and when im sexuale i dont let them look ... it sux i want it gone ...
LADIES! especially young ladies (teenagers!) You are so self concious of yourself because you dont know whats normal or whats not, you only really know whats "okay" is what it looks like in porn or magizines but as stated above, that IS NOT the case at all!! Every woman is different and i cant say that enough! Im now 25 and i lost my virginity at 13. young i know. but i refused to have him look 'down there'. and i was like that for my first 3 sexual partners. Once i was 16 i started to feel more comfortable with myself. Shortly after i noticed my lips were getting, not huge but, bigger. I had sex only a handful of times so its not like that was the cause of it, its just genetics. When i was 18 there was a definite increase in size and i started to feel self concious about it but i didnt let it stop my sex life. NEVER EVER has a man ever looked down there and said "uuughhhh" or anything of the sort. There were actually some that were happy they were larger and said that they loved them. I expressed my hate for them to some and they strongly encouraged me to not do anything to them. Ive gotten the name candy lips, lippy lips. lol. I do want to say that i live in an urban area.. so my sexual partners have been black. Black men seem to be more loving of any imperfection on a womens body.. just because they love women.
So ladies, seriously, to a man, the way it looks doesnt really matter.. its about the way it feels!!!! and according to the stuff ive read, ladies with bigger lips have better poom poom so be happy! Every one was made unique! Seriously! Love yourself and any man who comes into your intimate life will have no choice but to do the same. Confidence is sexy. Dont let the facade of porn and modeling deter you. Its all unrealistic. WE here, are realistic and beautiful!