Title: Sperm content of pre-ejaculatory fluid
Source: Human fertility [1464-7273] Killick yr:2011 vol:14 iss:1 pg:48 -52
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First off, it being your first time doesn't make any difference. Her using the restroom doesn't really decrease the chances. Her vagina is not her urethra. The only impact that may have made is gravity. As in, it's more difficult to for sperm to swim up through the cervix when a woman is standing.
The odds of having sperm in pre-ejaculate are slim to none. However that doesn't mean it can't happen. Though it's VERY rare.
Overall, you really need to use a condom and she needs to get on the pill. She can do this by going to Planned Parenthood or another clinic, and doesn't need to tell her parents. Not that I condone hiding it from her parents, but I do understand the desire for secrecy.
The fact is, the age and health of a girl is a big factor in whether or not she'll get pregnant. And a teenage girl, and into her 20's, can generally get pregnant about as often as sneezing. They're pretty fertile. So be careful.
On another note, it's unfortunate your first time happened in such a surreptitious and rushed way. It should be more than that. I hope you'll approach sex in a far more mature and thoughtful way in the future.
Good luck.
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Pre-cum does not contain sperm. The Cowper gland (were pre-cum is made) and the testicles (were the sperm is) are not the same thing. The pre-cum prepares the track (cleans it) for the ejaculation (sperm) to leave the male body with the most success. The pre-cum neutralizes acid in the track (left by urine). The acid would kill make a bad condition for the sperm and chances are not many would survive long enough to fertilize an egg.
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That's not what UK research has indicated. Some men always have active sperm in their pre-cum; others, never.
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so shld i tell my gf to have an ipill becuz she is little worried becuz it was are first time and we didnt had an intercourse but still you can understand that we have a feeling of having sex and by mistake our sexual organs touched when such fluid or precum was there on my penis..we didnt had intercourse but still..please tell me the way..!!!
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No.
And there is no such thing as a "cherry." You need to look into what supposed "virginity" actually is. There isn't some flap of skin blocking the entire vagina like we are led to believe. This is what a hymen looks like
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It's nothing. It's a bit of skin around the vaginal opening that is stretched, or sometimes torn, in order for the vagina to accommodate whatever you're putting in. It can be stretched during masturbation, fingering, intercourse, tampon use, etc. You're not popping anything.
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Thank you for looking into this yourself! That's fantastic. I've come across ONE verifiable study on the topic (http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12286905). It says that while sometimes (rarely) sperm was found in precum, "very small amount of sperm which seemed to be immobile"; same as a man who is considered infertile.
My partner and I have been using the pull out method exclusively (save for a few random times of condom use) for 3.5 years, and many times before that too. We have never, ever had a problem. I feel pretty much 100% certain that people who supposedly get pregnant from "using" the pull out method are not using it correctly. Either they do not "time it" correctly or there was sperm left in the man's urethra from a previous ejaculation.
I don't understand either of these problems. First off, why use the pull out method at all if you don't know your body well enough/don't have the self control to make sure you pull out BEFORE you can't wait any longer? It doesn't suffice to wait until you're about to--you have to stop before you're about to come. My lover stops well before he gets to that point and again, we've had no problems. And secondly, I'd imagine that it's just common sense to operate under the assumption that if you have recently ejaculated, it is possible that perhaps it didn't all come out. Duh.
Anyway, just wanted to throw in my two cents too.
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