We are acquinted after arrange marriage since 5months, she is with her family since time is to go for her transfer to city where i stay alone in a flat. She was more excited to speak about a married man 'X' who is of similar age as both of us. She is 3months younger to me. He is born and brought up in the city where i stay now.

They know each other since last 5 years (she said they met first during the initial job training).  Last time she was admitted to hospital. In evening i saw her phone ringing and there were several calls from him. I raised a question that i do not like him being called you in my presence. As once i saw they were speaking for long time when she was distressed. Next day her another friend 'Y' asked about her health saying i was told by X.I said her to call any of your friend  to see us at our home with tiffin then she said to bring a tiffin to Y while i insisted to ask X but she said he could not do as his wife has just returned from Germany besides she is egostic because of her intelligence, so will not prepare for us so said to Y.

That evening both X and Y arrived at home i saw he(X) was talking like he can manage anybody and anyone but he was not comfortable when i was sitting in front of him additionally there was no topic of management skills or business. He avoided looking most of the time towards her while Y was fine while talking or looking towards any of us.

1. She answered something like X came to know about her in hospital because a message meant for her brother was sent to X. But message content was not in her phone when i secretely checked her phone.

2. How my wife can tell about others married life and their relationship with each other. She claims she knows all his(X) problems (which are not known to her wife and Y the close friend of X )like his liver operation.

3. She got a call so she left to kitchen a after few word she came to me and answered it was from her father. After 30min there was a long call from her father This made me to check in night of her phone and i realised she deleted this call in received call list. The number was from Mumbai(can trace on web).

The problem is i am right about her behaviour or i am wrong.

If i ignore it may ruin our marital life since i can only supress the reaction

If i respond it may create a stitch in the relationship. I know girls forget everything after marriage if husband is right (definition varies girl to girl) else............... then its better for me to go away.

Better thoughts will help me to stand at a point.

Thanks in advance for giving the time and interest....

Aaron