Hey guys,
i just want to let you know that I've had both a medical and surgical abortion and I recommend the surgical abortion. The medical was physically and mentally very hard for me. After I took the first pill, I woke up during the night feeling quite sick which is not supposed to be expected. I then had my prescribed pain killers followed by the next lot of pills which was 24 hours after the 1st pill. It took about 30mins for the cramping to begin and it was so painful for me. I vomited and continued to feel pain for a further 3 hours. I was passing little blood at this stage. I then passed the embryo which I saw in the toilet an has scarred me a bit... I wish I didn't have to see that. The pain lasted for a total of 10 hours for me.I think this decision was very hard for me as I am so excited to start a family of my own but this happened with someone who I don't know and didn't respect me when I told him to use a condom. I couldn't allow myself to bring a child into a world with a father who I do not know and trust. I think that the easiest way would have been to go in for surgery and then wake up and pretend like it never happened! Good luck to all of you who need to do this, I really hope your experience is better than mine and I pray for anyone who has to go through this but trust your instincts and be confident in your decision xxxx