hello; my name is missie and i just had an abortion. now i dont feel right about it but the baby was conceved under bad circumstances so i aborted. my question was how soon can i get prego after the fact?
Thank u
Missie
Thank u
Missie
Are you missing your pregnancy? Do you feel like you want a baby NOW? Well you dont, it is just your mind, emotions and regret talking for you, not common sense. You are not supposed to get pregnant until 1 year after you have an abortion or atleast 6 months. Because then you are thinking more clearly. A pregnancy that occurs within a few months of an abortion is called a 'replacement baby' and you will be very sorry if you get pregant again because it is not going to replace the baby that was aborted. What you want right now it is NOT the smartest thing to do. You need to think about why you aborted and not get pregnant again.
If you get pregnant again you will be very sorry because it is not going to make you feel better. The pain will pass and when it does you will realize that you did what you did, at that time because you thought it was the right thing to do. Believe me another pregnancy will not make what ever you are feeling go away as soon as you become pregnant. To be honest, if you get pregnant again you feel much worse than you did before the abortion.
What makes this time different than the last time? The circumstances are not going to change. You need to talk to someone and realize that these feelings are only there because you just aborted your baby. Having another baby is not going to make your life better right now. You are not a bad person for what you did, but you need time to really get over this.
Just talk to someone who is understanding.
If you get pregnant again you will be very sorry because it is not going to make you feel better. The pain will pass and when it does you will realize that you did what you did, at that time because you thought it was the right thing to do. Believe me another pregnancy will not make what ever you are feeling go away as soon as you become pregnant. To be honest, if you get pregnant again you feel much worse than you did before the abortion.
What makes this time different than the last time? The circumstances are not going to change. You need to talk to someone and realize that these feelings are only there because you just aborted your baby. Having another baby is not going to make your life better right now. You are not a bad person for what you did, but you need time to really get over this.
Just talk to someone who is understanding.