I also have this problem, and it is very uncomfortable at times. I cant wear certain thongs because my labia too big, and it becomes unconfortable when I sit. I have told my boyfriend many times that I reeeallly want to get labiaplasty. He wont let me! Apparently he likes it. It may be a discomfort for me, but it IS how I was created, and my boyfriend likes it so i guess its all good.
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You teenage girls are all missing the point about sex. You should not be having sex with liitle BOYS that will care so much about these things. Your partner should love you for who you are, so stop having sex just to have it. I am a 20 year old male and I am saddened to see young girls who only care what others think about their body. My girlfriend, who is 18, has a big libia and it doesn't bother me one bit. Whether it's from the love I have for her or just her natural ability, it's the most enjoyable sex I've had with any girl. There's nothing to be ashamed of. Stop worrying about what other people will think of your body and start respecting yourself. Any guy who would care about something like this doesn't care about you in the first place and is just using you for sex. Why would you care what he thinks? You ladies are beautiful the way you were made. If you are considering having sex at the age, there are many more important things you shuld be worried about than having a big labia. How about pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases and infections? Besides, most boys that age are going to be more concerned with thinking whether or not you think their penis is large enough. Trust me, I was the same way when I was around 14 years old. You have nothing to worry about ladies. Please remember to repsect yourself, love yourself, and practice safe sex.
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I also have a problem with my labia minora.. one side is twice as long as the other side and hangs out of the sides.. It also has a greyish black tint at certain areas, which i went in to get checked out, and my doctor said it was perfectly normal and that everything looked right. But I'm a 15 yr old virgin ang I feel so ugly and self conscious with how it looks, not that it matters right now but when I get older I want to come in front of my boyfriend and be completely comfortable with him looking at me, not shying away because I feel my body is ugly... I love all my body, except that one part. When I get older getting it fixed doesn't sound like such a bad deal..
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. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who had one. As I 15 year old I thought I was the only one. I wasn't born with it, but when I was 10 I was raped. And over 2 years of related abuse, it formed. Sometimes I would cry because I thought I had a STD or something. But it's all good now. I recently learned Alot of girls have it and it's nothing to be ashamed of. Come to find out alot of men find it sexy. When I finally had the courage to let my bf touch me down there he actually liked it. It's nothing to be embarrassed of. Infact embrace it.
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I am a Man & that is wonderfull . My biggest concern is how clean are You & the next is do You shave or use hair remover ??? You do not have to shave it all off , but a trim is nice :-}
Have a Good Day Every Day :-}
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I have the same problem and I'm also fifteen. I hate my labia minors because they stick out and I'm scared to wear bikinis and such because I think they're ugly and weird and gross. It's terrible... And I dont want to talk to anyone about it because I think they'll think it's weird or whatever.
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im 17 and always had large labia slightly more one side then the other, i spoke to a doctor who had a look and said it was perfectly normal and nothing to worry about, i am now in a sexual relation ship, hes never said anything about it, i feel so comfertable around him it just dosen't bother me anymore, theres no rush to having sex or four play anyway, find someone that you can trust, i was gonna say about it to him but i dont think he even notices :)
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im 16 & i've only let a guy finger me in the dark. im trying to save sex for marriage but im even scared to get naked in front of some of my friends cuz theirs are "normal" & small. my lips hang down far & im scared what guys will think about it & my friends too. i just dont feel normal:'(
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I am 15 and exactly the same, I didn't even notice there was anything different about my vagina until i saw a program where a woman had the operation to get the labia cut of, and I realised that's what mine looks like and now its all i can think about. It makes me cry to think about being so abnormal to other people, i would give anything to have a nicer vagina. I can't believe that men dont find it weird as the men and women who come on these site's for assurance and to assure women are obviously familiar with it such as women who have longer labia or men who are gyno's or plastic surgeons. I don't believe I will ever be confident enough for anyone to see, the thought of even letting a doctor see makes me feel sick and lightheaded. Plus the added fact that it is so uncomfortable, wearing underwear and having bits stick out because they dont fit inside or rubbing on your jeans as you walk, its just so embaressing, I dont wear shorts or short skirts or bikini's because of it. I just hate it.
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Omg I hav the same prob and am the same age. Reading this over has really calmed me down. I was totally depressed cuz I thought I was some kind of mutant freak! Now that I know it's normal I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Yay (; !
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I am 17 years old and I also have this 'problem'. I have slept with 6 guys, bad I know, however all 6 have said how much they love my body and enjoy sex with me. All my past three boyfriends had no problem with it, and often would go down on me which made me feel confident! A real problem to worry about would be cancer, disability, blindness etc. I am not an ugly girl and without being big headed, have managed to get good looking guys and kept them ( even after them seeing my labia) so stop worrying over nothing! Embrace it x
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im the Same im also 15! i look on the internet all the time to find some suport or sort of cure, i hate it so much!,if you have any good ideas of how too get it smaller let me know!,glad too know im not on my own though
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Ladies just Google "love large labia" look, read, and embrace a diversity that makes us such a beautiful animal. Its about respect and understanding. Love yourself and you will be loved. Looks are secondary.
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I'm an older male and I find the larger labia very attractive. I do have to admit that I don't remember admiring labia as much when I was younger, but I never judged a girl by it. I was into my twenties before I even came to appreciate the vagina for what it is. I was always too eager to have a willing participant to be judgemental. All the young girls here need not worry about it. Trust me, even if he's the most popular guy in school, and has all he girls after him, he's not likely to have much experience. Of course I need to say, that in my opionion, you are all too young to be experimenting with sex anyway, and should wait until you find a guy that your willing to commit your life to. If however, if you do have a "boyfriend" and you are both feeling like it's time to experiment. Do it safely and remember he's likely to be more insecure than you are. "Does she expect me to be circumsized/uncircumsized? Am I big enough? Will I be able to please her?" I believe that a young man has alot more pressure when it comes to performance. All in all, be confident with what you have, and know that it's alot easier for girls to find a guy than vice versa.
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