large labia minora

i have the opposite problem. im 16, virgin, and not very sexually active. my labia minora dont show at all. and i mean at allll. and my friends say there vagina is more mature, even though there younger, and its embarassing cause i feel like guys will judge me, as if i have the vagina of an 8 year old :-/

i wish i were you... the 8 year old vagina is the normal looking one to some people :(

Okay know I'm not the only one. I feel so much better knowing its not some disease or something. I felt scared I hated looking at it and thinking of ways to change my long Labia minora. I am the only left out of my friends a virgin. And I was to scared to lose my viginity or let alone being naked with someone else in the same room. But I have looked at the research and its actually normal I feel better. And more comfortable but still not ready to lose my virginity. ;)

Girls, large labia are great, and do not worry if they are not exactly the same size.  We men love the larger, dangling labia - they are super sexy compared to the small ones that hide.  So enjoy them!  I like to suck larger labia into my mouth and it always results in a woman gasping with pleasure.  It's hard to do this with the small ones.  So please, no surgery!  You are wonderful just how you are!  

I notice that many ladies are very insecure about their bodies and looks.  This includes my wife.  What I can tell you as a man is that there is nothing more beautiful in the world than a woman’s body.  We men cherish the look of your body.  Each woman has a unique look and beauty.  I can tell you that your boyfriend or your significant other will not be able to resist you in bed if you have the right attitude.  Do not alter your body; your man will get the most pleasure by observing you have an orgasm.  It is very easy for men to have orgasm, on the other hand, if you alter your body you may never achieve orgasm, or find sex pleasurable.  That would be a major problem with your man.

Darlin... don't you worry. Most men LOVE seeing a womans' inner labia, and the more there is to play with, the more it turns them on. 

Hey girls, I'm 20 almost 21 and I have the same problem, one is actualy longer then the other and sometimea it even hurts when I walk! Have no fears though, I used to dread getting even remotely intimate with someone for fear of being put down for being different. but I have since found guys either don't care or actuality lile it. My long term boyfriend can't get enough of it! I used to ve terrified when someone wanted to try and go down on me, but my bf really helped me to see I am beautiful and he supports me in my on going thought as to whether or not to do the reduction surgery. Keep calm girls, we are our biggest critics, so what you find to he a major flaw in your opinion, I can gurantee its no where near as a big of an issue to others as you initially thought!!

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i Also have this Problem ,i m vergin girl ,i feel very Bad when i sit and doing any work ,in that problme I wanna Die ,After marrige What Is my Husbend What he think About this ,,,,
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you're beautiful, don't be silly. sounds like a whole lot of woman to me!

I so understand how you girls feel I've hated my body. I don't even go swimming bc I'm too scared. I heard lots of guys laughing at the term beef curtains and it's making me not like my vagina help!!!!!!!!

I'm turning 14 and I have the exact same thing I don't know what to do about it, I don't want to tell my parents, I am a very out there girl but this is holding me back so much, I absolutely hate it.

Well Girls Im 17 & I Lived All My Life Thinking This Too Omg No Boy Will Ever Love Me My Boyfriend & I Were Dating For 2 Years & I Never Let Him Touch Me Now A Year Ago I Finally Did It & He Loves Them Hes 19 & He Finds Them Extra Sexyy Dont Worry He Thinks Their exciting & They Actually Turn Him On You Guys Will Be Fine Just Get You A Man Not A Little Boy Someone Whose Machure & Open To Sex Someone You Have Alott In Common & Are Comfortable With Like Me & My Bestfriend My Baby & Yull Be Finee ♥

I am the same I want to loose my virginity within the next 2 years ish my boyfriend wants to and I want to but I’m scared of teenage boys hating it he’s made jokes about it before but doesn’t know i do ( I’m 15 )

this makes me feel better to know i’m not alone. i’m also 15 now & can’t take this guilt about it, i constantly feel self conscious about it & always never want to get sexual with a guy cause i feel like they’ll judge or say something about it. idk what to do, i rlly want the surgery but i might be too young.

No. Beef curtains are nasty.