My list of health concerns is long, however, I am still trying to believe that a total colectomy was the best solution as now I have fecal incontinence at times as well as extremely loose stools. I never have any form to them now and believe that I suffer from dumping syndrome. My doctor is wonderful and she is really trying to find a solution for me, however, I feel like I have new problems in addition to the dumping syndrome.
I am 45 years old, woman, in good shape physically and exercise daily. I eat pretty well although I am not a health nut and enjoy NORMAL eating like pizza, desserts from time to time, meat, etc. I do not have a bag.
Any input/feedback is appreciated!
Hi, I had my full colectomy June 27, 2017. I had a laparoscopic procedure with 6 incisions but 3 days later was rushed backed into emergency surgery due to extreme pain. It was fluid accumulation but they thought it was a leak around my connection site. I awoke with NG tube and drains and a very larg vertical scar
sadly I feel like you see doctors and they just don't get it while they see you for what few moments they can spare you are still the one going home dealing with what you have and they are going home living their lives. Most of my family think that this surgery was great but they are not the ones there cleaning the sheets, crying in the shower ashamed because you had yet one more accident because you nodded off in your sleep and now you are cleaning yourself up wishing none of this was really happening to you.
I am over a year post op and life is VERY VERY different for me. I still struggle with bathroom issues bloating and a lot of air. As someone mentioned earlier, it's hard to trust in my body. I never am sure what is going to happen as I doze off or even attempt to pass what I hoped was only gas. I learned this though, just get to the bathroom, no matter what!
After a year of having my surgery, due to slow colon transit and YEARS of severe constipation, I find myself gaining a tremendous amount of weight and struggle with what to eat. I feel like I stay hungry bcs I am constantly disposing but the fact is, I am just at a huge loss of what to eat that will sustain me, give me energy, not send me to the bathroom moments after eating.
Tonight I send out this message in hopes to hear from someone who is post op and can offer some insight on a diet/new eating habits that have helped them move forward in a positive way. Bless you all and each one of you who have posted to this site, I pray you find answers to help you along your journey. The best advice I can give you is this, learn to be patient with yourself. You are going to endure a lot of drs, friends, and family who don't understand your situation. Don't allow their to validation or lack thereof to determine your next steps. Pray, pray hard. I will pray with you. In the meantime, understand you are the only person who is going to be living in your body, and while you are going thru all of this, allow yourself patience to deal with what you face.
God Bless,
M~
I understand the worry and concern about the future after having a total colectomy, hard to know what lies ahead and whether your status today is permanent. I had my surgery in 1987 after 12 months of hell with agressive UC, and was under 50kg when it was performed. I was 27 and it utterly changed my world. Over the first few years you test what works, whay you can eat/drink and what (if any) meds you need. My biggest issue was psychological, I felt disabled in some way.
Since the op, life has been so good I rarely think about the condition....no pain, no meds, no dietary limitations, fully active (80kg male) and with family and career all under control. For a while after the op I appreciated normal things and vowed I would never take good health for granted again, today I have to remind myself that I am minus a colon, in fact the only issue I have is toilet visits 2-3 times a day which are a tad more pungent than I’d like!
I can’t give anyone advice on how to manage their own condition, but can offer first hand hope for a normal life and self confidence. My job is mega stressful but enjoyable, I travel extensively so manage aircraft toilet issues routinely and have a diet that includes way too much wine, serious curries and chillified everything and virtually no greens (am a celtic salad dodger). The system copes admirably, I suspect the other organs will feel the stress before the residual intestines do.
I remember my GP warning me after my op that “your days of 8 pints and a curry are over”....if only she knew.
I’ve never posted anything before, but came across this site and thought it might be useful to someone out there to know how well things can turn out. I know I’ve been pretty lucky, and maybe the future has some twists, but thats not on my radar, gotta live for today and bend in the wind when it comes.
Wishing everyone the best, good luck and great health!
Rod
Thank you!
Aneta