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So my boyfriend had a boner a few weeks ago (caused by him walking into my bedroom wail I was getting changed) and im still a vergin. I felt bad because I wasn't brave enough to help him (have sex) and im worried I might loose the man I love if I can't help him every once in a while. And I did brake my hymen during gym class not that long ago but I've been told it still hurts...so im asking if theres a non painful way to have sex? Or if after your hymen being broken dose it still hurt or was those all myths?

If he really cares about you and loves you then he will stay with you but if you are thinking that you need to hate sex with him to keep him then he can't feel the same way about you. If  he walked in on you changing an hot a boner from it then that's his problem not yours it's not as though you encouraged it to happen, your first time should be special as its something your always remember and the more special it is then more your enjoy it.

If you are fully relaxed and carried away in the moment there is less chance of feeling any pain as your vagina muscles will be relaxed lubricated and there for ready to accommodate a penis and if he is also thoughtful he won't be in a rush to push his penis right inside in one go but will take his time.

By what you say I'm guessing that your under 16 still? Have you though about using any kind of contraception and what the consequences are if the condom was to break? Probably not.

If you feel that you need to help your boyfriend when he gets a boner that you have caused and not from him walking in on you then just give him a hand job or oral and no more save the rest until your older and have learnt to enjoy the joys of mutual masturbation.

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If your hymen is broken, will it bleed if you'll have your first intercourse? Just asking because I'm a little confused.
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Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth
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