Oh Becky I've told my mom side of the family but not my dad's yet still a little nervous to tell them!
Hi Brtiany: Start the prenatals OK? Also why don't you want to tell your dad's family yet?
Becky! How you doing honey!?
Becky! How you doing honey!?
Hey Bambie..well I have been hurting when I walk and from when my ovary starts to hurt I have been hurting some today but no bleeding today thank the Lord for that...went in and seen my doctor this morning and he checked me and did the ultrasound and he said my cyst was large and he says when I come back on march 16th that he will do another ultrasound to check it to see how it looks..he just wants me to rest and not do anything..and he says I am stressed which I am because my mother-in -law is still staying with us and she just can't do anything on here own so I am looking in to someone to come here a few days a week to help take her to her doctor appts and other things. He just says I need to rest and do more for myself then for others so I am going to try and hopefully by next week someone can help..hubby goes to work at 3:00 in the morning and don't get off till 4:00 in the evening so very long and hard day for him and then he trys to help with his mom..so I just hope here pretty soon she will be able to go back to her house...well she broke her arm last of Dec and it is still not better so just stress as well... But I just hope the bleeding don't come back..he just said if I start bleeding again then to go straight to the hospital but he says he will watch it at ever office visit to see if it is getting any bigger then we will talk about do something about it. But I am going to push him to make sure he gives me what ever I need..if I need it. Thanks so much you are the only one I can really talk to about this and that actually knows about this..my hubby is great and my friends but they know nothing about this stuff.
You're welcom honey! I amaze myself sometimes!!!! ;-) XD XD XD 8)
I am SO glad he is looking at this! Ovarian Cysts can have the same symptoms as Appendicitis, so if you were suffering from that you would be taking it easy wouldn't you? I think - as a woman - that when there is women problems then we are supposed to "deal with it" becasue that is who we are right? We handle childbirth, PMS, etc etc, so why can't we handle another thing! It's as though ourselves, our partners, friends/family and the rest of society believe that we ARE capable of handling anything! Which for the most part it is true! But when it comes to pain, there are some we can't just work through! So you take it easy OK? Raise your legs
Hot and then cold compress's on the cyst area are GREAT for reducing the swelling or engorging of the cyst! If you have a massage headed shower, let that spray on the area - this is called "hydrotherapy" it can help the body reaborb the cystic fluid! Some people believe in lowering your intake of white sugars and red meats!
I am SO glad he is looking at this! Ovarian Cysts can have the same symptoms as Appendicitis, so if you were suffering from that you would be taking it easy wouldn't you? I think - as a woman - that when there is women problems then we are supposed to "deal with it" becasue that is who we are right? We handle childbirth, PMS, etc etc, so why can't we handle another thing! It's as though ourselves, our partners, friends/family and the rest of society believe that we ARE capable of handling anything! Which for the most part it is true! But when it comes to pain, there are some we can't just work through! So you take it easy OK? Raise your legs
Hot and then cold compress's on the cyst area are GREAT for reducing the swelling or engorging of the cyst! If you have a massage headed shower, let that spray on the area - this is called "hydrotherapy" it can help the body reaborb the cystic fluid! Some people believe in lowering your intake of white sugars and red meats!
Hey I am going to try that with the shower head anything would help and if that does I will use it ever time. But yeah I am taking it easy and just trying to enjoy the day with the kids and hubby and relax some my doctor talked to my hubby about the stress and he felt really bad about it..so he is helping more with his mom today so I can have the rest I need for me and the baby. Thanks so much for everything and I am going to try the shower tonight after I put my little ones to bed and relax more.. Thanks
ok I know i said i would stay away till Monday, but i just need some reassurance my bb's are still tender woke up in the middle of a good sleep last night with achy bb's from my underarm to my nipple i took a look today at them the colour is slightly changed changing to move of a brown colour from a nice pinky colour and nice blue veins showing, i have also got little bumbs appearing i also have been getting clear vaginal discharge which makes me feel like i am peeing my self with again cramping in my lower abdomen.. not to worried about it i think am i just ovulating this month if i didnt get pregnant .... I have found i dislike my stuffed eggs last night i did some with dinner and found they tasted very very salty made me feel very very sick
i am using your method of staying calm i found a nice smooth pebble and i have found it does work thanks Bambie
i spent some time with my Kids and partner today he off to work and i found myself goggling this colour change and little bumps i off to work at the cowshed my self soon i like to help with clean up
will report back on Monday i am going to put my computer to bed and it can wake up on monday
i am using your method of staying calm i found a nice smooth pebble and i have found it does work thanks Bambie
i spent some time with my Kids and partner today he off to work and i found myself goggling this colour change and little bumps i off to work at the cowshed my self soon i like to help with clean up
will report back on Monday i am going to put my computer to bed and it can wake up on monday
Ok! Well Bambi the reason I haven't told my dad side yet because they are very complicated to talk to and if i tell them now i wouldn't hear the end of it with them and i don't want to stress myself right now if you now what i mean!
WOW! I have to have a notebook to keep up with you guys!!! ;-) XD
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Becky! - Is your motherinlaw of a sound mind? If so she needs to know that you CANT be stressed, and sometimes older people will take advantage of someone doing EVERYTHING for them - as my father does with me! How did the shower thing go?
Hunnie! I know Monday seems a million days away, BUT your symptoms definitely sound like pregnancy!!! So we will see, you are on the prenatal vitamins right?
Brittany - is it because you aren't married and younger etc? As long as you are confident with all of this, then it is none of there business! ALSO know that the truth ALWAYS comes out! So they might not appreciate not being told about your pregnancy till later!
WHEW!!!!! ;-) XD
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Becky! - Is your motherinlaw of a sound mind? If so she needs to know that you CANT be stressed, and sometimes older people will take advantage of someone doing EVERYTHING for them - as my father does with me! How did the shower thing go?
Hunnie! I know Monday seems a million days away, BUT your symptoms definitely sound like pregnancy!!! So we will see, you are on the prenatal vitamins right?
Brittany - is it because you aren't married and younger etc? As long as you are confident with all of this, then it is none of there business! ALSO know that the truth ALWAYS comes out! So they might not appreciate not being told about your pregnancy till later!
WHEW!!!!! ;-) XD
yes i am have been taking Folic acid since i started having my symptoms ( i hid them in my draw cause i didnt want to get my daughters hope up as she seen a test i had left in the toilet only cause i got kick out of the loo before i was even finished HEHE and thought i was i didnt know what to tell her i just said that mummy took a test to see if she was or not but the test says that no baby is growing in my tummy this was last month, so if i am i wont be planning on tellin them till i have a baby bump.) is even though i was getting them early i brought them off the shelf at the supermarket. My partner and i have decided to try for one more if i am not this time around but we are going to stick to if i am I am way of thinking and once i am pregnant he is going to go for that little op so that that when i am pregnant this will be our last ..... I think 4 is enough i have 2 other children which drive me up the wall some days hehe but what are kids For to keep us on our toes. LOL XD
Hey and yes the shower worked it made me feel so much better and my stomach it was like its just what that cyst need and I actually got up this morning and got a shower and I felt so much better when I did. I am from West Virginia so its about 9:09 and a great day here no snow... And she is 55 years old and she wants people to feel bad for her because she has done so much bad stuff in the past 6 years..we get the vip from her that it is all about here and my huby as all over that because she can be so rude and not think about anyone else but herself..you would not like her and how she is because she has said when we got pregnant that she was not happy about it..so I think she don't care about the baby...but we are so happy and its want we want and we tryed and thats what we got. so I think she trys to stress me out..what do you think because she don't want this other grand baby.
HI becky I know what you mean by people that age been all grumpy and stressing you out! about another grand child i have a mother in law who would be horrified if i got pregnant cause that means there is another little person to think about only makes it 6 grand children(i i was to be pregnant) ... i myself have issues with my mother inlaw if you dont ask her she get upsett but when you ask her she "Dont have the time to" that is how i feel.. i feel with my inlaws that they have time for other s but not what is in there own back yard her friends are more important that her grand children
Bambi i woke up this morning .. having a really weird dream haha i was dreaming about taking about 5 test cause in my dream i got 5 BFP and all of them were different on was say .8 and then a baby face and then a Pregnant and then i got 2 pink lines ... and here i am trying not to think about it it is now invading my dreams hehe ... what i was going to come on her and say to day how possible is it that i may have eptopic pregnancy i have got a pain in my left shoulder just an annoying pain i can still move my left arm .. cramping in my abdomen and still really tender BB's and lower back pain still i have my headaches and i had the - on the 3 rd the nausia has subsided with me i still got lots of clear Vd ...
I am going to go run me a bath and sit quietly in a warm bath while i wait for time to tick over to go and get my son from Daycare Hope you all have a good night day and evening
I am going to go run me a bath and sit quietly in a warm bath while i wait for time to tick over to go and get my son from Daycare Hope you all have a good night day and evening
Never made it to my bath but i went to the bath room and after i wiped i had brown chocolate colour discharge What does this MEAN??? ok i am starting to get worries but i am not worried if you know what i mean ..... WHAT shall i do know ????
Brown discharge is old blood! IF you are pregnant it still doesn't mean anything! Hang tight and lets see! NOW IF the pain in your left side REALLY become intolerable you will need to go to the hospital IMMEDIATELY as this could be a sign of an etopic pregnancy! And the blood MIGHT and I really mean MIGHT be from that!!! But lets keep our fingers crossed and not panic OK?
Becky! I had/have a mother inlaw from hell! But also my mom wasn't too happy about a 2nd grandchild!! So i wasn't VERY happy! My motherinlaw stated that because I wasn't Catholic my babies would be deformed and Mentally Retarded!!!!!!! So when my 2nd son was born and he was disabled and they though he was going to be behind for the rest of his life! They wouldn't tell their family about him! It was DEVESTATING I have nothing to do with them! And they only see them once in awhile! They have called me the Devil Incarnate! Threatened to kill themselves at our wedding! And even phoned our priest to say that "I was the Devil's daughter and I shouldn't be allowed to mary their son!!!!" And when I was with my mom for 21 hours - when she was in a coma - they said that they would never forgive me for not coming back home to see them!!!!!!!!! So that was it for all time! Then she tried to kidnap my youngest from his school! So if you want to talk Motherinlaws let me tell you mine is TRULY evil
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As far as why - as you know I study people and "KNOW" them - so she is doing this because she doesn't want to share the limelight! And Mark my words honey she WILL get worse before your baby arrives! Let your husband deal with it! I learned a long time ago to fight my own battles - BUT you are in a different position and can't deal with this right now! I bet her arm is healed and she is holding out as long as possible! For sympathy! It is selfish and narcasistic, but she wont change! The only thing that CAN change is how YOU and your husband deal with her! At 55 I'm sure she can move home now! Start putting more salt in her soup!!!! XD ;-) ;-)
I'll tell you guys a "funny: about Elzibob!!!! - the Mother inlaw!! When I was dating my husband she LOVED me, I was thrilled - as I was loved by my friends and boyfriends parents! So on the day we announced our engagement we went to my paretns house they were happy, and as we were driving to my husbands parents we were all UP thinking "This is going to be great! One big happy family!" So we arrived and the sky turned black! ;-) So anyways my husband took her to the side and said "We are getting married!" she replied "I don't understand! What do you mean?" So he repeated, she then GRABBED her Rosary Beads FELL to the floor SCREAMING and started praying! I thought to myself - just in passing - "Well this doesn't look good!!!"!!! THAT was an understatment! LOL Our ceremony was supposed to be about 45 minutes - we took out "Who sees a reason why these two shouldn't be married!? "And a WHOLE bunch of stuff! We got it down to 15 minutes, we were SO nervous that they were going to pull out guns and do something - she threated to commit suicide at the church!!!!!!!! So WHAM!!! We were married !!!! LOL And she said later "I'll give you 6 months" I replied "DONE! IF you drop dead at that moment!!!!" LOL!!! A WONDERFUL day!!!! ;-) XD It's true time heal all wounds - it's been 21 years!!!! LOL
Becky! I had/have a mother inlaw from hell! But also my mom wasn't too happy about a 2nd grandchild!! So i wasn't VERY happy! My motherinlaw stated that because I wasn't Catholic my babies would be deformed and Mentally Retarded!!!!!!! So when my 2nd son was born and he was disabled and they though he was going to be behind for the rest of his life! They wouldn't tell their family about him! It was DEVESTATING I have nothing to do with them! And they only see them once in awhile! They have called me the Devil Incarnate! Threatened to kill themselves at our wedding! And even phoned our priest to say that "I was the Devil's daughter and I shouldn't be allowed to mary their son!!!!" And when I was with my mom for 21 hours - when she was in a coma - they said that they would never forgive me for not coming back home to see them!!!!!!!!! So that was it for all time! Then she tried to kidnap my youngest from his school! So if you want to talk Motherinlaws let me tell you mine is TRULY evil
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As far as why - as you know I study people and "KNOW" them - so she is doing this because she doesn't want to share the limelight! And Mark my words honey she WILL get worse before your baby arrives! Let your husband deal with it! I learned a long time ago to fight my own battles - BUT you are in a different position and can't deal with this right now! I bet her arm is healed and she is holding out as long as possible! For sympathy! It is selfish and narcasistic, but she wont change! The only thing that CAN change is how YOU and your husband deal with her! At 55 I'm sure she can move home now! Start putting more salt in her soup!!!! XD ;-) ;-)
I'll tell you guys a "funny: about Elzibob!!!! - the Mother inlaw!! When I was dating my husband she LOVED me, I was thrilled - as I was loved by my friends and boyfriends parents! So on the day we announced our engagement we went to my paretns house they were happy, and as we were driving to my husbands parents we were all UP thinking "This is going to be great! One big happy family!" So we arrived and the sky turned black! ;-) So anyways my husband took her to the side and said "We are getting married!" she replied "I don't understand! What do you mean?" So he repeated, she then GRABBED her Rosary Beads FELL to the floor SCREAMING and started praying! I thought to myself - just in passing - "Well this doesn't look good!!!"!!! THAT was an understatment! LOL Our ceremony was supposed to be about 45 minutes - we took out "Who sees a reason why these two shouldn't be married!? "And a WHOLE bunch of stuff! We got it down to 15 minutes, we were SO nervous that they were going to pull out guns and do something - she threated to commit suicide at the church!!!!!!!! So WHAM!!! We were married !!!! LOL And she said later "I'll give you 6 months" I replied "DONE! IF you drop dead at that moment!!!!" LOL!!! A WONDERFUL day!!!! ;-) XD It's true time heal all wounds - it's been 21 years!!!! LOL
Thanks Bambie you are a god send are you sure you have not hurt your self when god gave you to us hehehe ooh that sounds like a cheap pick up line now doesn't it .
Well it is nearly time to dish up my dinner as it is 5.35pm but before i go shall i ring my doctor surgery tomorrow morning and let my nurse know that i have had this discharge??
OK Have a good day night evening and i will be back tomorrow morning 16hours time that seams so long away hehe
Well it is nearly time to dish up my dinner as it is 5.35pm but before i go shall i ring my doctor surgery tomorrow morning and let my nurse know that i have had this discharge??
OK Have a good day night evening and i will be back tomorrow morning 16hours time that seams so long away hehe