Ok here's my story I'm big down stairs my girl is tight. We have sex a lot and don't use lube. Just her natural wetness. I'm uncut. Well about 4 months ago after having sex already twice that day we decide to do it again. Now I usually only have to worry about my penius chaping over but this time on the third go around during the climax of our sex I felt a tear. I thought nothing bid happens a lot to my when we do it. So I finished then went to bed the next morning I took a shower and while cleaning it I felt it rip even more only I think I felt a ball of something role out I coundnt find it for I think it went down the drain. Well when I felt the rip it was like getting shot. I quickly dried off and took a look well there was a hole and it was bleeding lighty to my surprise. Well I went to the docs and she said herpes I felt sick until she said the kind u get on your mouth so she gave me meds for the pain and swelling. I took em nothing not a dam thing happend the lump was still there. So I looked online thought I saw what I had said don't have sex for a week and then it should be ok. Well week passed had sex missionary good no pain doggy though oh my god the pain that lump was flattened out and I had to pull out. Felt like I got shot and stabbed. Waited 2 weeks she got on top just 2 seconds into sex and same feeling only more intense. Won't usually don't use condom so I got some that had lubricant on the and in them maybe that would work did for a aday the next BAM same thing so now its 4 months later and this time it was the most painful of all I held my self almost in tears wishing I could cut my penis off then a few minutes past and no pain always the same thing pain a few minutes later I'm soft and no pain. Oh and I forgot to mention that 2 months ago I thought it was an infection so I took hydrogen proxide and 91percent alchohol and did that for a week the alchohol hurt like an mf but I thought pain was supposed to happen but after a week of it I said screw it and stopped that. I have no clue in hell wat this lump is if I pull my foreskin all the way back itches about a third of an inch away from my head its about a cm long and idk how high. It was a ball now its my egg shaped. There's not puss on leakage of any kind just sometime a thin whit layer of skin on the right of it and the left is exposed. I just tore the white skin off on the right during sex so I can only imagine now it'll get bigger but its a real big problem we both are sexually frustrated now and idk wat to do can't find anything like it online and it doesn't spread please help me someone. Tell me wat I should do and if I need to go to the emergency room to have it looked at. Thanks