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I think I understand where you are coming from, I had some negative experience with marijuana myself and paranoia, anxiety and similar things but I guess that it also depends on the weed and my man 30 years of regular smoking is too much, you cannot compare it with someone's occasional smoking which could be relaxing and fun (if weed was good and natural).
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Hi, my husband is going through marijuana withdrawels at the moment after 24 years of smoking marijuana. He has tried to quit many times before but has been unsuccessful. He is experiencing stomach pains, irritability, insomnia and severe leg cramps, depression. I have been a social smoker for many years but have easily given up as I want a healthier life and most importanly I don't want my children to smoke and the majority of drug users children end up being drug users themselves. I have already lost a couple of my friends who do not like the 'changed me', but I still believe that that loss is better then being a drug user. Marijuana has caused many problems in my life, espically for my family as my husband has got to the stage were he was hocking our things to pay for his habit. I can't take anymore and if my husband can't stay of the pot this time our marriage will be over, as I have to put my children and myself first now. How many chances do you give someone?
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-If you and/or your family can start to think of things you'd like to do or groups you'd like to join (family clay making, dance classes, singing groups, martial arts, meditation, swimming, etc. etc.) you'll find that you'll now possibly meet other non users and new healthier friendships will be had. When using it is easy to not bother really living life. Your time is now and your old so called friends probably don't like what they see because they probably wish for a better more exciting life, but don't wanna give up the dope in order to get that.
Marijuana has caused many problems in my life, espically for my family as my husband has got to the stage were he was hocking our things to pay for his habit. I can't take anymore and if my husband can't stay of the pot this time our marriage will be over, as I have to put my children and myself first now.
How many chances do you give someone?
-Others find ways to quit things that are caving in their lives, even while under huge stress, homelessness, etc. (adverse and not condusive to a hopeful situation-but they find their rock bottom and they are very motivated to quit once and for all and to start to believe in hope for their future). In my humble opinion, I would say that being very frank with your husband in recapping the damage that has been building up over the time of his usage, telling him what you expect and what will happen if he doesn't take quiting and doing what it takes to do so as a top priority. If he must move out to save your family from more financial ruin and influencing your children, then so be it. He may move out, binge a while in his new found "freedom" (not very free though, when he'll only have himself and his resources to pay for his dope.) but then I'll bet that he will truly realize how important quitting is so that his family can be together again, he'll have meaningful interaction with the family when straight and can spend the money on classes and activities for and with the kids to support their futures as successful ppl that know themselves and feel connected to their families. Him moving out to protect your sobriety, your kids security/stability (having enough food and rent/mortgage money) is important so that the kids don't have to live through the ups and downs of the stress and uncertainty a user at all costs creates. It'll probably provide the impetus your husband needs to finally quit for good, his rock bottom, so to speak.
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I was once one of them. I smoked weed all day, every day from age 15 to age 27. I smoked weed like it was my job. I tried using in moderation. I tried limiting my smoking to only at the end of the day, or only on the weekends, or only on "special occasions". But if you're an addict like me, that proves to be an impossible task. I had to quit altogether, and I had to have help.
For the people out there who say pot is not a drug... Not to be unkind (no pun intended) but I really think you're kidding yourselves. Who cares if it comes from a plant? So does heroin. So does cocaine. Yeah, they are more refined but are you going to split hairs using your own argument? Marijuana is a drug because (regardless of how it's natural origin) it is a substance ingested that changes your mind/body consciousness. You smoke weed to get HIGH !
And I don't care that alcohol kills more people, is more dangerous, blah blah blah, yes it is. Alcohol is a dangerous drug and that is absoultly, undeniably true and it also isn't news. But that doesn't mean the pot can't ALSO destroy lives, or cause harm, it just does so in a more subtle way.
If you're someone who can smoke weed in moderation, and it has no negative effect on your life: good for you. Smoke one for me. And if you're someone who smokes every day and still has external success: you should be proud of yourself for your accomplishments. BUT I hope you consider how pot might affect you in other ways. Are you using it to avoid dealing with reality? Are you using it because you don't know how to deal with your feelings without getting high? Do you use in spite of negative consequences, like trouble with the law, poor health, or isolation from loved ones? Do you choose pot over family, or straight-edge friends? Do you feel anxiety when your stash is running low? When you don't have pot or can't get high, are you okay with that or are you dieing on the inside and can't think about figuring out a way to get high? Only you can answer these questions to yourself.
Please spare the self-righteous indignation of "just because you can't smoke pot doesn't mean you have to bash it for the rest of us" argument. There are MORE than enough pro-marijuana arguments on the internet. But there are people who suffer because of their use of this substance, and they deserve a voice too.
If you want to quit smoking pot but have trouble staying quit, there are resources available to you that are cheap (like virtually free) and can change your life. If you need help I hope you seek it out and wish you the best of luck on your journey to recovery.
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I used to smoke a lot. It was a nifty diversion and I could say that its abuse probably had some negative effects on my life. That said, a bad habit will generally produce negative effects. To focus on pot and its dangers because you had personal issues with it is simply unfair to the rest of us that would continue to use it in moderation.
Why is it that the user can never take responsibility, that he or she needs to look to faith or blame a drug for the decisions that led them to negative consequences? Perhaps I am being selfish but I find it immeasurably frustrating that I am unable to get cannabis and use it as I see fit, legally, because a paranoid (no pun intended) society thinks that others are as uncritical of personal actions and consequences as they themselves are. Combined with a substantial number that have never tried cannabis and arbitrary federal classifications that leave cannabis virtually unapproachable by all but privileged "researchers," the institutional force against responsible cannabis use is unbalanced in favor of weakness and ignorance.
Tar? Use a vaporizer. Addiction? Get a grip. Consider the real victims of cannabis: Prisoners in U.S. corrections facilities, potential doctors that can't get student loans because they got caught with a pre-determined illegal amount of sativa, taxpayers that actually pay to enforce ridiculous laws associated with cannabis law enforcement, kids labeled "offender" at age 14. I'm sorry, but those are the real social costs that I see associated with cannabis. Those are the things that actually concern me because I know a lot of people that smoke pot and lead very normal and successful lives simply because they haven't been caught. It's pathetic.
I study law. I study politics. I study corrections. I live in all of those things. People are manipulated on many levels, for many reasons. When do the negative effects of the enforcement of outdated drug policy outweigh the positive effects of such enforcement? I'd say 30 years ago. What kind of drug enforcement is meaningful? I wish I had an answer. Who's a better pusher in this country, the guy that you get your cannabis from because you know a guy, or the company that is in one of two countries (New Zealand being the other) in which drug companies can directly advertise to the public? Pharmaceuticals for profit should scare the c**p out of people but it doesn't; "marijuana" does.
I sympathize with the problems expressed here pertaining to the abuse of cannabis but why don't these people sympathize with my desire to responsibly use it as I see fit? It is not a zero-sum argument so why do we, as a country, need zero-sum laws?
I apologize for the energy of this post. I was looking into INS issues tonight and I got into rant mode. I am very sincere in my opinion on legal possession of cannabis and am more than willing to concede that I avoid using the word "marijuana" because I don't agree with its use. Cheers.
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break ups, divorces, sudden diet changes
If it is something you are having trouble giving up then you might experience discomfort or withdraws.
If not pot, then there will always be something causing illness, pain or depression. For me, these things were lessened by marijuana. I had a better quality of life while using it until I got arrested for it. The facts have shown time and time again that marijuana is much safer than any type of synthesized chemicals that exist. The most significant problems with marijuana are due to the illegality of it. There is an increase in drug cartel related deaths that could be statistically decreased if we decriminalized marijuana. The drug wars are seeming to produce results similar to the prohibition of alcohol. You think we would have learned by now that people are going to find a way. Addicts in recovery should know that it is not the illegality that creates sobriety, it is personal serenity.
FREEDOM AND PERSONAL CHOICE ALL THE WAY!
LET THE LAW OF NATURE BRING US JUSTICE!
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