My husband of 27 years stays very upset all the time. He finds every wrong I do and gets very mad. If there is nothing I do then he finds something to get mad about and turn it around my fault. He is the only man I have ever known in my life. I have been faithful to him from day one. He does not help me with anything in the house or in the yard. He comes home from work and stays on the computer until time he wants to go to bed and the he does not touch me. We never have sex anymore. We hardly kiss. He is angery with our daughter of 13 years all the time. He never is happy. He is unable to have sex because of sexual reasons. I don't know what to do about all this. I want my marriage to work, but I see other marriages that the husband loves his wife and would do anthing to please her but not my husband. He does work every week and is a good father, but just does not give us any of his time. His mind is always on doing something on the computer. If we go somewhere, he needs just a few minutes on the computer everytime before we can leave. I so tired of dealing with all this. I know there is a better life out there. I just don't know where to start.
how many days to not touch each other?
Well to start out with some well thought of advice is if your so unhappy and especially the fact that he treats you and your child like that you should probably divorce him.No man should ever treat their family like that...EVER.A marriage is about communication not get angry for no reason and the fact that he stays on the computer all the time and you two never have sex anymore.I'm sorry to put it so bluntly but you deserve to hear some truth.Just because he his a good father and works doesn't give him the right to treat you that way.In the end its ur decision to make.Best of luck.
one day when hes at work pack some clothes for you and miss lady and leave him for a few days.AND TELL HIM WHY YOU LEFT HIM.it sounds like he is only going thru the motions.AND YOURE RIGHT-THERE IS SOO MUCH POSITIVE OUT HERE WHEN YOU LET GO OF NEGATIVE BAGGAGE.he isnt in your life anyway hes just there-angrily but hes there.let yoru daughter enjoy her teenage years without the angry,negative,abusive influences of her father-he can still be there for her even tho yall are not together.good luck-dalphy
Hey dear i read ur problem and find tht, u r not alone who have a husband like this. I am newly married and hv no baby. But when i talk about my husband he is so unromantic and always keep tensed and unhappy. My hubby never gives imp to sex, even from 1st month of marriage and he never share his problem and happyness wid me. I ever feel alone at home and my hubby doesnt alow me to go my mom home for meet my parents. But its solution is that, i leave his house and go for my parents house. By do this i just hurt my parents and make them tensed. So we need to do sumthing else that change our husbands. But what to do.
I am 35 hears old married woman an goin thru something very similar! By the way your husband on computer so much and how can't do nothing without going on computer first tells me that he is having an affair with someone on computer an he is probably doin sober sex wit her/him. This is what happened to me. I found way to open his files on computer an found husband had been chatting and emailing with nother.person. When I found pictures that the had share with each other with them naked an smiling wit erections I realized that my husband had turned gay or maybe was gay all along and had just discovered his true identity. The longer this goes on the more likely he gonna meet up wit his cyber lover to do actual sex. My 37 years old husband did an I caught them doing oral an anul sex in our bed in our bedroom. His boyfriend was a 16 years old boy! When I sayed I wuz gonna call police, both husband and boy got frightened an begged me not to do it. They sayed they wud do anything if I wud not call. So I told them they wud have to do sex wit me. At first they refused but when I picked up phone they sayed they wud. So I'm now in charge an very happy. They both been having sed wit me for months. An I get to watch them sexing each other. I must say husband's lover boy is better at doin me. As far as I'm concerned things is going best ever. Only problem is 14 years old daughter found out about it an wants to join , but I don't want to do it but I may have to agree cause she's now threatening to report us.