i have masturbated like the whole summer and one day i masturbated 3 times and there was a day my penis stood up like 30 min. and i wasnt thinking anything malicious or porn and i have a hard time covering my penis in the public :$
No, there are no bad effects.
The 'hard all the time' is just nonsense. I beat off between 4 and 10 times a week, and have done so for the past decade. Let me address the nonsense from the previous posters:-
1) It doesn't stay hard all the time. This is nonsense. In fact, it gets soft immediately afterward, and won't stand up unless I really work at getting turned on. In all likelihood, I won't think about sex for at least half a day.
2) Someone said that women don't like guys who beat off because it's a habit you get enslaved to. This is also nonsense. Most emotionally health girls enjoy watching you beat off to them. They get a bit weird about it if you're beating off to porn though; some of them think it's like cheating. If you're single though, they kinda expect you to beat off regularly, and I've never experienced a girl judge me badly for it (if one did, I'd dump her and never speak to her again)
3) Impotence. Again, nonsense. How can exercising the penis cause impotence?
4) Sunken eyes, poor vision, laziness... I've never had this problem. I have a high pressure bank lending job, and I don't have any energy problems.
5) Serious disease. Not sure where the disease is supposed to come from. Wash your hands first I suppose..?
There's one thing I think you should keep an eye out for. Now, remember that during your late teens and early twenties, your sexuality is still forming, and there's a feedback loop where what you beat off to will 'stay with you'. Granted, beating off to porn is as much self-exploration as it is self-formation, but just remember that not every sexual practice will excite every girl. So, having early sexual experiences with actual girls will do you some good - it calibrates you to what real girls are like. When I say 'stay with you', by the way, nothing is permanent, you can change your sexuality later in life, it just takes a bit of work.
Oh, and ignore Christians. They don't know anything about anything when it comes to a healthy sexuality, or good sex. They'll just take your self esteem away for being a human being with a sex drive.
The 'hard all the time' is just nonsense. I beat off between 4 and 10 times a week, and have done so for the past decade. Let me address the nonsense from the previous posters:-
1) It doesn't stay hard all the time. This is nonsense. In fact, it gets soft immediately afterward, and won't stand up unless I really work at getting turned on. In all likelihood, I won't think about sex for at least half a day.
2) Someone said that women don't like guys who beat off because it's a habit you get enslaved to. This is also nonsense. Most emotionally health girls enjoy watching you beat off to them. They get a bit weird about it if you're beating off to porn though; some of them think it's like cheating. If you're single though, they kinda expect you to beat off regularly, and I've never experienced a girl judge me badly for it (if one did, I'd dump her and never speak to her again)
3) Impotence. Again, nonsense. How can exercising the penis cause impotence?
4) Sunken eyes, poor vision, laziness... I've never had this problem. I have a high pressure bank lending job, and I don't have any energy problems.
5) Serious disease. Not sure where the disease is supposed to come from. Wash your hands first I suppose..?
There's one thing I think you should keep an eye out for. Now, remember that during your late teens and early twenties, your sexuality is still forming, and there's a feedback loop where what you beat off to will 'stay with you'. Granted, beating off to porn is as much self-exploration as it is self-formation, but just remember that not every sexual practice will excite every girl. So, having early sexual experiences with actual girls will do you some good - it calibrates you to what real girls are like. When I say 'stay with you', by the way, nothing is permanent, you can change your sexuality later in life, it just takes a bit of work.
Oh, and ignore Christians. They don't know anything about anything when it comes to a healthy sexuality, or good sex. They'll just take your self esteem away for being a human being with a sex drive.
Hello Im 15 years old and i struggle in school due to masturbating. Masturbating gives me anxiety and makes me feel guilty! I want to stop but its an addiction i had since 7th grade. I haven't been going to school because it makes me feel bad.i even had to repeat 9th grade due to it, and right now im in 9th grade again and i still struggle.Please help! Ill be more than happy to share you my story!pmm. @(***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed **
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I am mentally disturbed because i started doing this I feel sick and depressed and ashamed no matter what the general media tells you masturbation is the wrong way to go it is considered unholy to christians and if your not a christian just look at what its done to people like me don't hurt yourself
don't worry about it . everybody feels that way somtimes it will get better! 8-|
hey '15', U need some help if u are repeating school because you jerk off a lot! there is nothing wrong with it but if it interfers with your daily life it is like being a 'drunk' or 'drug addict' you must really enjoy it too! do u get erections and can't resist jerking it off, or do you stimulate yourself to get the erection so u can do it? there is a difference. i am much older and i do it several times a day!
I randomly feel temptation to masturbate to...(ex.porn) and it's hard to fight it, and my mind controls me. Later i hate myself for doing it and feel anxious. It's and addiction i have and my dad also has an addiction to drinking. I want to stop because I hate feeling bad afterwards and not going to school. Oh and I have to go to court for not going to school(1st time ever!)on DEC.28.AHHH!Christmas break is dec 21 thru jan 5.
To ALL of you whom feel bad about masturbation, You ALL need to know that masturbation - or self touch - is done by ALL mammals! Babies in the womb touch themselves and newborns do as well as toddlers ALL the way upto the end of our lives! It is as natural as walking, talking, etc. It is an automatic response to stress, pleasure, even illness! Have you ever seen someone REALLY laugh - usually more so a man - will grab their penis immediately! It also happens with a child that has endured a trauma or an upset! And not ONE Fetus, NOT ONE Baby, NOT ONE little child fantasizes or lusts! So this is NOT a Sin! It is NOT mentioned ANYWHERE in the bible! All the bible talks about is Lust - usually more about cheating or wanting something someone else has! And you also have to remember the scriptures and the stories are from a time of HORRENDOUS Sin and depravity! They are the basic rules of man! Which they have NOTHING to do with a humans need for touch!
So the MORE you try not to think about the MORE you punish yourself, the MORE you will want it and it will take over your life! It is NOT a SIN, It is NOT Immoral! It is a private NATURAL act that ALL mammals do! And the only people that don't are the ones that have had to endure a LOT to stop! So PLEASE don't think so badly of yourselves and just learn your body, and know that with hormones your body will need to do this! And with ALL the stimuli around us the body NEEDS to carress itself and to relax!
So the MORE you try not to think about the MORE you punish yourself, the MORE you will want it and it will take over your life! It is NOT a SIN, It is NOT Immoral! It is a private NATURAL act that ALL mammals do! And the only people that don't are the ones that have had to endure a LOT to stop! So PLEASE don't think so badly of yourselves and just learn your body, and know that with hormones your body will need to do this! And with ALL the stimuli around us the body NEEDS to carress itself and to relax!
masturbate make me tired...i cannt cope in work...i hate masturbate but sex is great
I used to have a lot of memory loss due to masturbation, and it is true that some people are affected and some aren't. Excessive masturbation caused hair loss and groin pains, as well as testicular pains when I was aroused for a long time. The best thing you can do is change your diet. Eat lots of nuts, pomegranate, grape fruit or grape fruit juice. I also eventually bought some herbal medicine. I hardly use it anymore, but anyway, i don't have as much problems anymore. I also try jerkin it in the shower a lot of the time. seems that I was getting less masturbation side effects when I was in the shower. Hope I helped
It can be negative and addictive depending on the person or why one is doing it... For example, someone who studies the bible and has a relationship with God or higher power (whatever your beliefs are) Someone mentioned in the bible, this is true.. But for whatever reasons it most of the time will cause feelings of guilt and can be damaging to ones self-esteem..
I know this first hand (or should I say right hand,lol) Because I struggle with the feelings I get after I have wanked it... In fact I enjoy wanking it and if it weren't for my beliefs I probably wouldn't have a problem with it.. Hmm..
another situation I can give in abusing masturbation or taking it out of a healthy context is when a person uses it to treat something, like anxiety, or as stress relief.. I mean I think we all can agree that after having a wank session one would feel relaxed, sleepy, or just good... So, if this is the case it can be dangerous and even effect the persons life, in a negative way...
For those of you who can do it and keep it in a healthy context.. My hat is off to you..
But for those who get negative affects some of which I may have talked about... There is answers..
best of luck.
IT has bad effects because if you masturbate always,you cannot control it and you will be addicted to it and when I see some pretty girls im becoming turned on again and then i will masturbate again... i think that is the bad effects
I believe if you have a girlfriend it can stop you from masterbating because I like to masterbate a lot to but when I went out with this one girl I stopped. Idk maybe it because she promised sex
"However masturbating with porn regularly will spoil your arousal for
real live people. It gets your body to respond to unrealistic
situations which may lead you to respond differently with real live
people" *sexologist opinion*
real live people. It gets your body to respond to unrealistic
situations which may lead you to respond differently with real live
people" *sexologist opinion*
try to look at your nipple it gets bigger if you jaculate to much..!!!