I'm 16 n I masturbate everyday 1-2 times and I haven't had a girlfriend yet and I don't know what to do to stop masturbating the longest I've been able to stop masturbating is one week but that's was like a year ago please help I need advise on how to hook up with a girl and on how to stop masturbating.
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Hey guy,
At age 16, you're still discovering your body and sexual appetitie.
You apparently enjoy masturbating, and it doesn't sound like it is too much for you.
You may not have a girl friend yet, but that's alrght. You still have plenty of years ahead of you for both dating, sex, and masturbating.
Most men masturbate. It doesn't stop just because you have a gf.
But the idea that you may be putting all your energy into your own sexual pleasure instead of developing relationships with other IS a concern.
You can start by joining new clubs, perhaps some at school, and learning to talk to others about what is important in their lives. People love to talk about themselves and their interests.
Second, you can make a deal with yourself that you will only pleasure yourself half as much... that is, perhaps only once a day, not twice.
But please don't think that just because you have a gf that you will be getting sex, nor that you will instantly stop masturbating. It's not that clear cut and easy.
Ths will take time for you to develop. Good luck.
At age 16, you're still discovering your body and sexual appetitie.
You apparently enjoy masturbating, and it doesn't sound like it is too much for you.
You may not have a girl friend yet, but that's alrght. You still have plenty of years ahead of you for both dating, sex, and masturbating.
Most men masturbate. It doesn't stop just because you have a gf.
But the idea that you may be putting all your energy into your own sexual pleasure instead of developing relationships with other IS a concern.
You can start by joining new clubs, perhaps some at school, and learning to talk to others about what is important in their lives. People love to talk about themselves and their interests.
Second, you can make a deal with yourself that you will only pleasure yourself half as much... that is, perhaps only once a day, not twice.
But please don't think that just because you have a gf that you will be getting sex, nor that you will instantly stop masturbating. It's not that clear cut and easy.
Ths will take time for you to develop. Good luck.
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Hi! Can I ask why you want to stop masturbating? 1-2 times a day is pretty average I would say for a guy your age. You masturbating will not increase or decrease your chances of finding a girlfriend either.
On the girl thing - just be you! Don't try to be something your not - don't try to impress...just be you and it will happen!
On the girl thing - just be you! Don't try to be something your not - don't try to impress...just be you and it will happen!
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