I am a 13 male and I just started masturbating and when ever I do, I don't get any semen. It feels good I'm just worrying if I'm doin it wrong or something. Also if you have any tips for a newbie like me that would be great.
Hi guest,
Your body may not be ready to ejaculate yet. Give it some time as you should be close. You can't really do it "wrong." Everyone has their own way of doing it. Just do what feels good for yourself.
Tips? Relax first of all. Put a lock on your door too. Try to make it last a long time too, it'll help you last longer when you become sexually active.
Good luck.
Thank you for your post, it helped me out. But how long does "last longer" mean.
As long as possible. 45 minutes, an hour, or two. Whatever you can do.
The idea of masturbation should NOT be to just ejaculate (when you can). Instead use masturbation to understand your body, to learn control of your orgasm/ejaculation. You'll learn to recognize when you're about to ejaculate and then stop it from happening until you are ready.
Why would you want to?
Because your partner may not be ready yet. Women tend to take longer to satisfy than a guy does. You don't want to ejaculate in a minute because she won't enjoy sex with you.
Hope it helps.