I am 42 I quit having periods over a year ago asked doctor about menopause he says I am too young and his nurse told me slim women do this. I have rheumatoid arthritis and he says there has to be an answer as to why I don't have periods anymore I now have pattern hair growth on face and chin and easily urinet on myself at times. I had hot flashes for one month when I first quit having periods. Doc also just told me to be thankful I no longer have hassle of periods. How do I know if I am menopausal?