I got to this sight due to curiosity and what I found is amazing to me. I have the answers to all your problems right here and I will tell you now what you need to do. Ready?
Most all of the questions on this site can be answered an any book found in a bookstore on sex. "The JoY of Sex" has been around forever. Go to a bookstore and get it. Remember the person that is selling the book DOES NOT CARE OR IS JUDGING YOU FOR BUYING IT, JUST DO IT. If you are in your teens you must realize you have only been on this earth a few years. Yes it seems an eternity to you but it isn't believe me. If you are having sex now, then you should be mature enough to do any of these things: It may be to difficult for you to talk to your parents, so next time your at your Doctors office and you don't want to talk to him/her either tell them that you don't know enough about sex and do they have a list of books you can buy on the subject, or ask your counselor at school. Kids get into real trouble on sites like this. Not to say that some things are very good but for the most part, asking questions like this on a site that you don't know who you are talking to, you will be inclinded to believe the things YOU WANT TO HEAR AND NOT THE THINGS YOU NEED TO HEAR. If you think you are old enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to talk to a professional without embassement. Yes, I know you don't want to hear it , I didn't either. Your body is not even ready for what you want to put it through trying to grow up and be an adult. Because of peer pressure you feel you are lacking and need to keep up with your friends. This can get you into more trouble than you have ever dreamed of. But here are some thoughts that you might take to heart.
1. Masturbation: Is normal. There is know right or wrong way to do it as long as you are well lubricated and don't beat it up. Your penis will be with you forever so take care of it. Masturbation is natures way of you discovering your sexuality, finding out about your body and what feels good. It is meant to help you ease into your sexual life as you mature. So have fun and masterbate. People will tell you it is bad and all sorts of things will happen to you but it is not true. In doing so you will be learning about your body and you will know what sexual gratification feels like. You will also find out what you want in life. You will find out for example if you are straight or gay and what that will mean to you in the future. It is all normal. Experimenting is how we learn.
2. Penis size: This you will not like so much but read on. We all come in all shapes and sizes and that applies to your penis to. Remember if you are a teen your body hasn't stopped growing and that applies to your penis as well. Be good to your body and don't worry. There are no remedies for a small penis. But if you are very young you should see a doctor and let him be the judge. You may be deficient in hormones.
Surgery usually will result in penises that look like they deformed. Yes you can increase width more than length but you will look unusual with a fat shaft and a small head. Surgery can often cause more problems than not. Get to love what you have and remember there are thousands of people in the same boat as you. It only takes about 3 hard inches to do what you want to do. She only has feeling up to that amount and the rest is just gravy. Guys with big cocks have more problems with intercourse because they usually hurt their mates because they are larger than she can accomodate and they have to improvise to have and give pleasure. Remember your a teen and your body hasn't finished yet and nothing will hurry up the process. Go to the gym regularly and work on a great body that will turn her on and you will be in like flyn.
3. Unusual symptoms: If something is going on that has never been before GO TO A DOCTOR. There is no other choice if you want to be healthy and sexual in the future. Burning or Itching from the tip of the penis, yellow discharge, curved penis, trouble urinating with burning are all bad symptoms. Don't wait to see a doctor. These symptoms can range from Gonnoreha, Syphillis,and a multitude of other stds, it could also just be a urinary infection but you should see a physician as soon a possible. Leasions on the shaft or head are also not good signs...any of these could cause sterility, and you could also become impotent from it. Some of these symptoms could pass(but it hasn't gone away and you could be in real trouble . Syphillis can kill. There are all sorts of things that you can get into (don't wait) SEE A DOCTOR.
4. ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM! KNOW HOW TO USE IT AND DON'T FOR ANY REASON HAVE ANY KIND OF SEX WITH OUT IT. HIV IS NOT A JOKE. AND WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE .
5. If your a teen, masterbate all you want, but leave it at that until you are out of high school. Learn as much as you can about how to have sex with a man or woman. It makes no difference. But in the meantime read as much, and learn as much as you can about yourself and your gilrfriends anatomy.
6. If you want to learn more about your girlfriend then mutual masterbate each other. Keep your semen to yourself and never let it get
in contact with your partners vaginal area.
7. Pulling out before you cum is not reliable, though many will say it is. That is an old Catholic way of birth control and it doesn't work all the time. They are usually sorry when they get pregnant. Because no matter
you can pre cum or even release a small amount of sperm before you climax.
8. But have fun outside of putting your penis in any holes without a condom. Condoms can leak, it happens and that is a sentence of having to cope with alot of adult decisions your not ready for.
9. You think your in love...well...9times out of 10 you think you are and in two years you will go to college and split for 4 years. DON'T COUNT ON ANYONE WAITING...IT USUALLY DOESN'T HAPPEN. You and your partner can learn from each other thru self masterbation and learning how to arouse each other. It is all a learning process for LATER IN LIFE.
10. Bent Penis: There is something your doctor can do for this and you probably will want to do this as soon as you can. It is a minor surgery and if you let it wait it will cause both you and your partner discomfort down the road. Because it will keep bending as you age. If you are not circumcised doctors can help you with any foreskin problems like pulling it back etc. There are also other physical problems that are easily fixed like skin attached to the head or discomfort of any kind.
11. Never have annonymous sex. if possible get to know the person you are going to have sex with. Think about it... You are not only sleeping with them but with everyone they ever slept with. It takes a while to find out if your possitive for HIV and there are no signs for a while. So even if they say they are clean Don't take chances, ever!
10. If your a teen and can't talk to a professional about anything to do with sex you are not ready to have real sex.
11. In this case: Ignorance is NOT BLISS. IT IS A NIGHTMARE. Ask Questions, read, talk to professionals and don't believe what you read in chat rooms. Chatroom advise is hearsay. If you are gullible enough to trust someone on a chatroom rather than a doctor or a book on sex, be prepared for the consequences. They have no vested interest in you or your health and there are many giving advice for malicious fun, or they are getting off on your descriptions of your sex. There are good and bad people on the internet. But the ones you should trust, should be a doctor, a recognized book on sex, a counselor, your parents, your priest, they are the ones that care for you and your sexual health.
12. Relax....you have got a lot of years to explore your life and the world around you. You will want to get an education, travel, and do all the things you would like to do before you settle down .As you get older safe sex with be second nature and you will be well informed. But on the road of life there are alot of pitfalls that can ruin your life so it pays to educate yourself with good information.
Be responsible, have good clean and safe fun. But don't think your in love until you have some years under your belt and if that person you
believe is still around after college then consider a life together with good sex.
After seeing all the crazy things on this site and crazy answers that are just wrong, I had to answer...Please, Please, educate yourself in a responsible way or you may regret it.
Sincerely, someone who does care, and someone who has had pitfalls. Pitfalls I regret. All because I listened to my friends instead of professionals.
Most all of the questions on this site can be answered an any book found in a bookstore on sex. "The JoY of Sex" has been around forever. Go to a bookstore and get it. Remember the person that is selling the book DOES NOT CARE OR IS JUDGING YOU FOR BUYING IT, JUST DO IT. If you are in your teens you must realize you have only been on this earth a few years. Yes it seems an eternity to you but it isn't believe me. If you are having sex now, then you should be mature enough to do any of these things: It may be to difficult for you to talk to your parents, so next time your at your Doctors office and you don't want to talk to him/her either tell them that you don't know enough about sex and do they have a list of books you can buy on the subject, or ask your counselor at school. Kids get into real trouble on sites like this. Not to say that some things are very good but for the most part, asking questions like this on a site that you don't know who you are talking to, you will be inclinded to believe the things YOU WANT TO HEAR AND NOT THE THINGS YOU NEED TO HEAR. If you think you are old enough to have sex then you should be mature enough to talk to a professional without embassement. Yes, I know you don't want to hear it , I didn't either. Your body is not even ready for what you want to put it through trying to grow up and be an adult. Because of peer pressure you feel you are lacking and need to keep up with your friends. This can get you into more trouble than you have ever dreamed of. But here are some thoughts that you might take to heart.
1. Masturbation: Is normal. There is know right or wrong way to do it as long as you are well lubricated and don't beat it up. Your penis will be with you forever so take care of it. Masturbation is natures way of you discovering your sexuality, finding out about your body and what feels good. It is meant to help you ease into your sexual life as you mature. So have fun and masterbate. People will tell you it is bad and all sorts of things will happen to you but it is not true. In doing so you will be learning about your body and you will know what sexual gratification feels like. You will also find out what you want in life. You will find out for example if you are straight or gay and what that will mean to you in the future. It is all normal. Experimenting is how we learn.
2. Penis size: This you will not like so much but read on. We all come in all shapes and sizes and that applies to your penis to. Remember if you are a teen your body hasn't stopped growing and that applies to your penis as well. Be good to your body and don't worry. There are no remedies for a small penis. But if you are very young you should see a doctor and let him be the judge. You may be deficient in hormones.
Surgery usually will result in penises that look like they deformed. Yes you can increase width more than length but you will look unusual with a fat shaft and a small head. Surgery can often cause more problems than not. Get to love what you have and remember there are thousands of people in the same boat as you. It only takes about 3 hard inches to do what you want to do. She only has feeling up to that amount and the rest is just gravy. Guys with big cocks have more problems with intercourse because they usually hurt their mates because they are larger than she can accomodate and they have to improvise to have and give pleasure. Remember your a teen and your body hasn't finished yet and nothing will hurry up the process. Go to the gym regularly and work on a great body that will turn her on and you will be in like flyn.
3. Unusual symptoms: If something is going on that has never been before GO TO A DOCTOR. There is no other choice if you want to be healthy and sexual in the future. Burning or Itching from the tip of the penis, yellow discharge, curved penis, trouble urinating with burning are all bad symptoms. Don't wait to see a doctor. These symptoms can range from Gonnoreha, Syphillis,and a multitude of other stds, it could also just be a urinary infection but you should see a physician as soon a possible. Leasions on the shaft or head are also not good signs...any of these could cause sterility, and you could also become impotent from it. Some of these symptoms could pass(but it hasn't gone away and you could be in real trouble . Syphillis can kill. There are all sorts of things that you can get into (don't wait) SEE A DOCTOR.
4. ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM! KNOW HOW TO USE IT AND DON'T FOR ANY REASON HAVE ANY KIND OF SEX WITH OUT IT. HIV IS NOT A JOKE. AND WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE .
5. If your a teen, masterbate all you want, but leave it at that until you are out of high school. Learn as much as you can about how to have sex with a man or woman. It makes no difference. But in the meantime read as much, and learn as much as you can about yourself and your gilrfriends anatomy.
6. If you want to learn more about your girlfriend then mutual masterbate each other. Keep your semen to yourself and never let it get
in contact with your partners vaginal area.
7. Pulling out before you cum is not reliable, though many will say it is. That is an old Catholic way of birth control and it doesn't work all the time. They are usually sorry when they get pregnant. Because no matter
you can pre cum or even release a small amount of sperm before you climax.
8. But have fun outside of putting your penis in any holes without a condom. Condoms can leak, it happens and that is a sentence of having to cope with alot of adult decisions your not ready for.
9. You think your in love...well...9times out of 10 you think you are and in two years you will go to college and split for 4 years. DON'T COUNT ON ANYONE WAITING...IT USUALLY DOESN'T HAPPEN. You and your partner can learn from each other thru self masterbation and learning how to arouse each other. It is all a learning process for LATER IN LIFE.
10. Bent Penis: There is something your doctor can do for this and you probably will want to do this as soon as you can. It is a minor surgery and if you let it wait it will cause both you and your partner discomfort down the road. Because it will keep bending as you age. If you are not circumcised doctors can help you with any foreskin problems like pulling it back etc. There are also other physical problems that are easily fixed like skin attached to the head or discomfort of any kind.
11. Never have annonymous sex. if possible get to know the person you are going to have sex with. Think about it... You are not only sleeping with them but with everyone they ever slept with. It takes a while to find out if your possitive for HIV and there are no signs for a while. So even if they say they are clean Don't take chances, ever!
10. If your a teen and can't talk to a professional about anything to do with sex you are not ready to have real sex.
11. In this case: Ignorance is NOT BLISS. IT IS A NIGHTMARE. Ask Questions, read, talk to professionals and don't believe what you read in chat rooms. Chatroom advise is hearsay. If you are gullible enough to trust someone on a chatroom rather than a doctor or a book on sex, be prepared for the consequences. They have no vested interest in you or your health and there are many giving advice for malicious fun, or they are getting off on your descriptions of your sex. There are good and bad people on the internet. But the ones you should trust, should be a doctor, a recognized book on sex, a counselor, your parents, your priest, they are the ones that care for you and your sexual health.
12. Relax....you have got a lot of years to explore your life and the world around you. You will want to get an education, travel, and do all the things you would like to do before you settle down .As you get older safe sex with be second nature and you will be well informed. But on the road of life there are alot of pitfalls that can ruin your life so it pays to educate yourself with good information.
Be responsible, have good clean and safe fun. But don't think your in love until you have some years under your belt and if that person you
believe is still around after college then consider a life together with good sex.
After seeing all the crazy things on this site and crazy answers that are just wrong, I had to answer...Please, Please, educate yourself in a responsible way or you may regret it.
Sincerely, someone who does care, and someone who has had pitfalls. Pitfalls I regret. All because I listened to my friends instead of professionals.
Hi ekim,
Thanks for taking the time to write that post. It looks very informative :-D
Thanks for taking the time to write that post. It looks very informative :-D
This was incredibly Helpful, Thanks! :D
I jus want to say thank you so much for not only the info but I'm 25yrs with a 4 year old baby girl and a 2 year baby boy my husband and I were married to each other for about a year when baby girl was born and then next thing we knew baby boy was here now we had been sweethearts since 6th grade but we waited for actual intercourse til our weddin night and let me jus say it has been so worth it with a few LARGE hold ups.lol I'm sry unclean but I appirecated the message cause I hope our kids will choose to have the same motos and values that we lived by and want for them. I believe that ur message helped me figure out how to encourage accepable ways to deal with all the hormones and urges. I'm proud of my husband and myself I jus want my babys to one day have the same pride thank you for the personal help for me