For about four months now my bf and I have been trying to have sex but he can't get hard (enough). The first time around we both thought it was just nerves (it was the first time for both of us despite being already 25 and 30) but despite getting more comfortable with each other it just isn't happening. He's in good health, doesn't smoke and drinks in moderation and he's not on any kind of medication. He usually gets hard when we make out but he's never hard enough to have penetrative sex or even put a condom on. He recently told me he never really gets hard but with enough manual stimulation he can come anyway. Is that usually the case with guys?
He says he's not hung up on it going wrong the previous times but he seems increasingly reluctant to even try. Is there anything I can do to fix this? Could it be cause he's not really attracted to me?
no
try turning him on?
you should stimulate him with your hands and mouth
its possible
:)