OK.. my boyfriend loves to touch my ass. i don't know why but it makes me feel kind of awkward and weird. It's defiantly pleasurable but it makes me a bit uncomfortable. I've tried to explain it to him, but in the end i feel like a total id**t and i feel awful cause then he gets tense and worries about whether or not he's making me uncomfortable which i understand. HELP! what should i DO!?!?!
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I would suggest, if you dont feel ready for any kind of anal play, to hold off on it for a while till you feel a bit less embaressed about it.
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Touching your ass while dressed or during sex. If while dressed, like so many girls, you may not like the way your ass looks. Thing is the guy sees a great ass while the girl hates on herself. Relax and get over it if the feeling is good. Really not such a big deal unless you don't like it.
While naked - well he must really like it. Ass grabbing is nice to guys. It helps to control her hips to the right rhythm and thrust. Sticking a finger inside, well that is just to see if you are open to anal sex. If you don't like it, tell him that you love to feel his hands on your ass, but not inside. At least not yet if your open to consideration of anal. If you do like the slight probing, then let him know that too.
Basically, tell him how you feel and what you like. Then nicely say what makes you unsure or uncomfortable. I am not sure I want to go any further yet is a good way to draw the line. It says where he can go without hurting his ego as a man. Talking will do wonders for you both so you can explore what does feel good and is comfortable for you both. Good luck!
While naked - well he must really like it. Ass grabbing is nice to guys. It helps to control her hips to the right rhythm and thrust. Sticking a finger inside, well that is just to see if you are open to anal sex. If you don't like it, tell him that you love to feel his hands on your ass, but not inside. At least not yet if your open to consideration of anal. If you do like the slight probing, then let him know that too.
Basically, tell him how you feel and what you like. Then nicely say what makes you unsure or uncomfortable. I am not sure I want to go any further yet is a good way to draw the line. It says where he can go without hurting his ego as a man. Talking will do wonders for you both so you can explore what does feel good and is comfortable for you both. Good luck!
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