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My girlfriend is Bi should I be worried?

By ElChevolico | 43 posts, last post
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My girlfriend just came out to me that she is Bi and said she was never straight through our relationship. She told me to break up with her if I don't love her but she is the world to me. But Bisexuality goes against everything I believe in so I don't know what to do
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Yeah, and anyone who recently has tho problem, as if 2015, I have the same situation as these guys. It's stressful, but we do love each other, she's even more mixed in emotions, trust us, if these guys agree, it is a great relationship, you just got to get past this, and when the time comes, tell her how you really feel. If you get married, tell her if you're religious that it feels immoral, I'm 17, and it was said, and she is dying down on being bi, and accepts the straight thing. Hope this helps, I've talked with other dudes I actually know and they did the same thing.
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I feel you, and your recent as well, just go with it, I know its difficult, but the love is worth it and you CAN get her to accept the straight thing with time
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well partner...that oral stuff carries plenty of weight. and you should not have to compete with that. mine simply fell in love with both of us (her first, me second). when push came to shove, i found myself being the odd man out (didn't last long). the next thing i heard, she had given her girlfriend an ultimatum to divorce her husband (and come live with her). it wasn't long after that she had two new dating profiles up. one in search of bi female and another iso a male (two different sites). apparently, we all three went our separate ways (i'm such a homewrecker...lol). so in case you don't get it, these people are carrying on a double relationship (it is just the same as if she would have cheated with another guy). gender for them doesn't matter....they're indifferent. that's why they're not accepted in the lesbian community (bi-sexuals think it's ok to have two sexual relationships going on at the same time). they sheepishly tell us guys this c**p as an afterthought (it's in their interest to keep going both ways...the best of both worlds). the dumb guys automatically think threesome. the smart ones take them to a swingers club....and that's completely another subject!

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Mine said she was bi when I met her, sex was great she said, I've made her feel like no one did ever... She has depression, she now says she is a lesbian and she only wants me as a friend, told me I was so good in bed, yet she feels lesbian now... Like wtf??? Had great sex with me (or so she said) lots of times and Dow she is a lesbian all of the sudden. I told her she was confused. The problem is I fkin love the girl so I guess time will tell, nothing I can do for now.
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I EIChevolico....If your girlfriend is bi-sexual and you feel uncomfortable then move on! Remember we all have to worry about STDS. I don't think being involved with someone who goes both ways is a very good idea. Explore your options and do what you think is best. Otherwise protect yourself just be and feel safe. Any other questions  feel free to ask anytime. 

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Thank you this is what I worry about man thank god I found this like people like freaky girls buh like I don't like sharing my girl like that it's just me and her playing our hand inih buh she never made attraction wiv other girls buh I still get worried
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Being too worried
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Like my girl turn bi but I need to stop worrying cos she will never cheat on me but she's more into boys anyways
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We had been dating for a few months before my gf told me she used to be bi. About 4 years ago she had tried to live a lesbian life but concluded she couldn't live with another woman.
This intrigued me greatly and I found this my opportunity to get in with the -ever tried a 3 some line.
I'd never done a three some before, now two years in we've enjoyed many 3 somes, we look at online dating sites together at other females, a walk down the arcade ends up in rating girls for appearance etc. For me this is perfect, it stops me wanting other girls and her wanting other girls, she assures me shes not into other guys, very rarely she'll tell me another bloke is hot.
For me this is the perfect relationship. What is not perfect is a bi girl who goes with another girl without her man's approval or letting him join in. This is selfish, no different from a guy cheating on a girl with another girl.
The attitude of -let her explore, get it out of her system, whatever c**p excuse you want to label it with is nothing short of can I say? GAY. She knows what she's doing and whether it's a man or a woman or a dog it's wrong. If you don't mind your partner cheating on you then good luck.
Personally if my girlfriend had a fling with another girl I,m not sure how I would feel. I think I would be a bit jealous and cheat on her to even things out, which ends up in a slippery slope.
If you're gonna cheat do it together, 3 somes used to scare me but now I love them, it's just sex.
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My girlfriend had mentioned she would love to have girl if it's ok with me and I said sure you can but I am not interested in her, but would love looking at you while getting your desire, she was very happy to hear that. Then she opened with me more and told me she tried it before once and she would like to have girl once in while and I approved it. She was more open with me in talking about what she would like to have with girl etc. I even supported her to have her feeling the way she wants as long as she is with girl. She started looking and she updates me about girls she meet and their conversation. She went to meet girls as I recommended her and she was very excited. I won't be worried about her feeling with me at all. She told me about the girl who just met and went for dinner and seems they could get together for girls night desire.


I would recommend you to give her space for her feeling as long as she is doing it while you are their and she will love you more for sharing her feeling with you and the girl she would love to have sex with her.

You should be happy as long as she will do it as long as you are there
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My girlfriend came out as bi the other day to and I get what your going through. I don't know if I want to be with her anymore because of my religious upbringing but I can't bring myself to leave her.
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My girlfriend is bi too, I rather enjoy the three ways with her friends, thanks for the advice man
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So , I'm in the similar situation. It has been 5 years , originally she thought a break might help, but called me 4 hours later , saying that decision to end the whole thing was a horrible decision. She says she is distracted by the thought of having sex with other women. I think its pretty hot, but I'm also worried . I would not want to lose her to a leasbian , I love her deeply and she is my world quiet literally. She still cares about me and loves me. Although we don't have as much sex as usual.

To be honest I have no idea what to do. I just want us to work out despite what she needs to do
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This is a genius response and shows you have excellent insight. I would add though that for 99.9% of humans we are shaped by a culture that isn't always necessarily correct in its teaching. And while you're is response is incredibly respectful of what I'm espousing I would further state we all need to have a deep look inwardly at ourselves and figure out what we believe what we believe. Not for the purposes of questioning but to ensure that our beliefs truly come from within and not from without.
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