my girlfriend says she was a virgin when we met however intercourse was quite easy

Her receptivity indicates nothing about her experience. There is no reliable way to tell if someone is a virgin or not and, really, why should it matter.

Just trust her. As you stated, she has no reason to lie.

It sounds weird, but it's possible for her hymen tissue to have been broken, from a tampon, if she uses them. That way, there wouldn't be as much pain, during intercourse... I've.. heard of it. It's a possibility?

But, just trust her x) If you've had intercourse, it means she trusts you..

The hymen can break in tons of ways besides intercourse. Just trust her.

Look man, no person is relaxed on their first time. Were you relaxed on yours? Dude that's like throwing someone into a hockey game, if this person is comfortable, NO DOUBT he/she has played hockey before.

Look aside from that example, I had an ex girlfriend who told me she was a virgin, she slept with me on the second day, and she was loose, and relaxed while it happened. I couldn't believe the lie the first time it happen. I tried to doubt that I doubted for a long time, after four months the relationship obviously didn't work out because of all the lies that continued on afterward.

How would you like it if you got thrown into a game you've never played before? You'd be scared. Even if you wanted to play the game, you certainly wouldn't be comfortable because YOU'VE NEVER PLAYED.

Look nobody picks up a tennis racket and all of a sudden plays like Roger Federror, or picks up a basketball and starts playing like Michael Jordan. Okay, people have to be practicing a long time to earn that confidence and ability, otherwise this world would be unfair and anyone could do anything.

Look aside from this logical reasoning. I did have an ex-girlfriend, who I regret calling my ex because of the very fact that she did lie about her virginity the very first day we met. She told me she was a virgin, and on the second day she slept with me, she was ultra calm with everything, she tried to act reluctant to take her clothes off, but they went off anyways, and she wasn't tight as you would expect a virgin to be. Look I don't care about biological stuff, the fact is that all the factors count, if all the checks and x's go to you don't think with the actions she made could ever possibly lead to it. Look man my relationship lasted for less than 5 months, only because I was holding up the other 95% of the bargain showering her with gifts while she probably slept with other men, it was long distance and I had no way of knowing anything. I find out later she's engaged to some guy and caught her at the club after we broke up with some guy. Look I know my story is sad and sh*t, but just saying, if someone is going to lie about their virginity, there is absolutely no limit or standard to follow after that, so I'm just saying be careful okay.

Rex

If you love her so much you should trust her. Only a girl knows that she is virgin or not no one else can make out the truth. And about doing sex normally. She was doing sex normally because she loves you and comfortable with you.

Dude - If she's had some sexual experience, but not intercourse, she could be very relaxed about it. Maybe she was just ready. I waited til I was older and had very little bleeding when I did it. The hymen is pretty easily damaged with tampons and pelvic exams (or even fingers and toys). Why would she lie about being a virgin? It's not what it used to be.

Well, I think the lack of bleeding can't prove she had had sex before. BUT I guess rexman87 is right about the calm and relaxation.

You said she has no reason to lie. But you've came here to ask our opinion. That means you aren't entirely sure.

:-) Just tell her you think she wasn't virgin.

That rex guy was an id**t. My first time I was completely relaxed and I was a virgin. The sex did not hurt because i had previously masturbated. Perhaps she is just comfortable with herself and her body.

I noticed the same thing with my girlfriend the first time we had sex. I could tell she wasn't a virgin, but she said she was so I believed her, but in the back of my mind... anyway she eventually came clean.. i just wish she woulda been honest about the first time, its no big deal to me

I enjoyed sex the first time I did it and that was 28 years ago.. You have to be ready and into it. I used tampons, so I might have been loose but all my BF's and husband always said how tight I was and I had a child in the middle. So trust her. Maybe she just likes sex. most men should be so lucky and if you don't trust her, your loss buster.

On this topic i would like to tell you that, at least 95% girls are scared of having first time sex. If she has had sex befor then she wont be as much worry as she should be. I hav a gf and she told me that she has never have sex befor. but just after one month frdship i was able to take her to my room. we had sex. but i didnt feel that it was her first time. i asked her she said really it is my first time. she didnt bleed anything. she just enjoyed.

then i told her. i know very well if somone is having first time sex hw she feels and how boy feel? then i told her i have no issue you can admit if you have had before. Then she told me that she had boyfrnd and had sex 2 yrs befor. she said that "i thought now as it is long time having no sex, so you will not know".

So when i had with my first gf she was actally virgin. it took for me at least 3 yrs to make her ready to have sex. when i took out my penis, she was so scared aftr watching it. she said it cant go inside, its so big, althouh it is not. as i tried to put in- she just start crying, this time i am just in possition to put in. and as i pushed she start crying a lot and tried many times to stop me. it was quite tight. i also was feeling pain.

according to me bleeding doesnt matter. what matter is that. is she scared? or are you feelig tight that time.

i know only " never trust any girl because they will always cheat with u"
 u know i can say with  full confidence your girl friend have already sex with other boy.
    this is depend of u what will u do  but  if u will ask ur girlfriend that she is virgin ? then she will never tell u that she sex with other boy .
                u know  this is true word  "love is blind"  because if all the person will tell u that ur girl friend is bad but u cant believe them because u love her and  every body are know love is blind .




now about me am a full experienced person about girls  i can easily understand her feelings and easily  know that they are wrong or right .
       i am giving u a sugg dont love any girl always use them only for sex and entertainment and daily change a girlfriend . means  "USE AND THROW".


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there is absolutely no way to tell if a girl has had sex every woman is different some don't bleed and others do some are erotic as virgins and others don't like the idea of sex just because she was confidence means nothing but that she probably trusted the guy, and one more thing if you think that using woman for sex is okay you and the rest of the world are in a different page just because you were cheated on you think that it's the end of the world wake up and stop being such a big baby it happens to the best of us ass whole, people like you are what make men look like savage's and it's also people like you who die fast for stupid reasons 

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