To me it sounds like hyperventilation, the symptoms of which are similar to an orgasm, but no orgasm has actually happened. Try to slow down your breathing during sex and relax. It's quite common. :)
It seems like many people keep saying this is a precursor to orgasm but I have experienced this also and it is not pleasurable at all! It is embarrassing and scary and distracting. Which nerve is to blame? And can anything be done to dull the reaction? Lots of similar post but no solutions :/
usually i am in control, and do all the action, its verry hard to let the control go.
Today, my gf was on top, she was riding all wild and my hands started tingling, then my arms, later my legs aswell, then i went soft, we kissed for some times, after that she was blowing me and i started to be unable to open my hands, the tingling got heavyer and i wanted to 69 but she was verry scared of what happened because i was on the floor and we always have sex in the bed (i know lame right) the tingling was extremely intense and she said it looked verry scary. she said she had the idea i was going to die, or have a psychose or whatever. anyway it was awesome from my point of vieuw. the tingling was uncontrolable but i forced my hands open slightly to comfort her. we took a shower but then i was in control over her again and slightly agressive (verbally) and she got scared and cried. this is the best experience ive had so fas, exxept that she cant handle it that well.
if this is what sex is ment to feel like, ive been doing it wrong for far to long.
I'm also a guy and get this too, always on my back and typically when receiving oral. I don't have an answer but some good suggestions have been posted here. One thing I've found if it happens but you don't want to kill the mood is to adjust yourself into a sitting position and breathe deeply and slowly. Its very frustrating when it happens because you can't even speak!
Thankyou...! will keep it in mind next time.!
thanx. i'm relieved after reading this :)
Need a solution ASAP
i drink water during sex and still have the tingling numbness in my body andi drink 9 cups of water a day plus the drinks of water I have during sex and ive been active since I was 13 and I just now get that effect and im now 19 ?????? can anyone help me out
Had this happen to me the other night. Me and my girlfriend certainly weren't having sex but we were definitely playing rough and dirty. She started dry humping me and then I reached down and fiddled with her vagina until she told me that she came. Then, right after hearing that my hands and face just became really numb. I wasn't worried, actually, I laughed my ass off because I thought it was hilarious and tripy. I presume that it was either dehydration since it was rather hot outside and inside or anxiety, since I am often a fairly timid person when it comes to being intimate with other people.
She told me if I don't like the feeling, then when I start to notice it I should pay attention to my breathing and try to breathe slower, and the feeling should go away in a few minutes. But that if I didn't mind the feeling then I could just carry on like usual, that it wouldn't hurt me any.