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It's obvious that it's not your figure that's the problem.
There's so many things that could be the problem here ranging from stress to personality changes or expectations of the relationship.
Talk to him. Let him know you are concerned and want to satisfy him sexually. That would show that you're willing to be vulnerable and shows your concern for him.
Let him eat plenty of fruits as well as: star apples, buko (young coconut fruits) and milk.
Yes testostorone is defently My problem. it is hard for you ladys. But totly frusting for us guys. You both should see the Dr.
I hate to tell you this but he is addicted to porn, and he has porn induced erectile dysfunction. It happened to my husband, so I know all about it. If your husband ever wants to be a real man again, he has to get off the porn, he is using it like a drug. It overstimulates one part of the brain and under stimulates another. Over time a porn user becomes a masturbation addict and a sex addict. They begin to act out, there are many different ways that they do this. You really need to do your research on this. I was blown away when I found out. Now we have a generation of 16 year olds experiencing porn induced ed. They can't even have sex with their girlsfriends, because their brains have been rewired to think sex is with their hand and the computer screen. Just key porn induced ed in your search engine and you will find out everything you need to know. Viagra or Cialis won't help this kind of ed. Those meds are for men who have gotten blockages from plaque build up or other health issues. Porn induced ed, known as pied, occurs in the brain. The brain is the real sex organ. Porn is more addictive than heroine ane cocaine and 200 times more than morphine. They need hits of their drug more and more often, and it's got to more and more hardcare. By the time you see the penis going soft with a partner, addiction is very bad, and is controlling every aspect of the addicts life. They are generally very good actors. Rest assured, they aren't thinking clearly, their jobs suffer, and their relationships eventually crumble. You must help him get off porn now, if you are to have any chance at a real marriage. Please look up porn induced erectile dsyfuncion. Good luck!
Hi there.
I am 51 and I have this same problem with my girl.
To put it short and sweet. Porn and masturbation is a definite relationship killer.
My situation is that I did this to myself by staying away from a relationship for fear of being hurt so deeply again.
Now I want to be as crazy as I was before my breakup with my new girl, but my guy goes to sleep shortly after a quick rise to the occasion.
So for the time present I make sure I pleasure her to the fullest and then when she is satisfied I try to get her to bring back a spark into my plug. It takes time to get rid of a 20 year ritual/habit. But my girl is understanding and I know the road back is a tough one.
For him to be this way at 22... man, when I was 22 I could go all night and hold this for the week till it hurt to walk.
There was no porn other then magazines and I never bought any. Do yourself a favor and block all porn channels and links from your life. Don't play with it too often and you'll soon yearn for the glimpse of a real p***y and the touch of a real woman.
Until then look at your diet and exercise.
DON'T fell rained on I'M a 64 year old man and it want stand for 00.001 sec my penis has died .that is life and some men just have to live with it .. and if you rely LOVE your man you will stand by HEM ..some men just lose that get up and go sorry to say that but the TRUTH is the TRUTH from a man that is sad and BK hearted but life go's on I am not much help am JUST KEEP LOVING JUST KEEP LOVING
this is the best comment and i will add did you have problems before that happened like you did some thing bad makes him mad angry sad jealous before the sex
this one also good comment i agree
Ok it is not that you are not attractive or don't have nice buddy or breast. I am pretty sure your breast and but is amazing. I am male and it has happened to me a couple of times. my girlfriends feels the same way you do, but what it is is the lack of exercise and the a poor diet. feed him home meals and make him happy and give sex when he wants to. if you deny sex when he wants to then his penis may not react later, enjoy having sex ok. He is still attractive to you, but make sure he does exercise during the week.
Ok it is not that you are not attractive or don't have nice body or breast. I am pretty sure your breast and butt is amazing. I am male and it has happened to me a couple of times. my girlfriends feels the same way you do, but what it is is the lack of exercise and the a poor diet. feed him home meals and make him happy and give sex when he wants to. if you deny sex when he wants to then his penis may not react later, enjoy having sex ok. He is still attractive to you, but make sure he does exercise during the week.
When I was 19 to 20, I had an older lover girl friend. She was over 30, maybe 35. She taught me how to please a woman and we were matched sexually. We often went to another town and spent the night in a motel and came back early enough to get to work separately. After many months of non-stop sex, my penis would not respond and get hard. For three nights in a row I could not get hard no matter what we did. She got frustrated but was patient. I got frustrated and scared. We quit seeing each other due to the negative nature of this and the resulting feelings. I never had that problem again for a long time. Many years later while in my mid-fifties, I had a hot lady as a lover and the same thing happened. She was very patient and would slowly suck my penis lovingly until I got hard and she eventually cured me using that technique each night before we had penetration sex. Don't get any surgery. Just try other methods of stimulation and be patient. I should have been more patient in my earlier years, too, because I lost a great lover and friend due to both of our frustrations and mutually splitting.