I am in the 7th grade. i hav many guy frends and many grl frinns. we always hang out go to parties and each others houses and all. Well me and my closest guy frend brett. we wanted to do a little bit of experimenting. well it was really hard brcause my vagina is kind of tight so he started fingering me to try to make it less painful then he put his penis in my vagina really deep it hurt but.. i liked itt..... Ever since i had sex with brett my vagina is red and itchy and gets these bumps and my vagina burns when i go pee and it kind of feels like its brused or sumthin. Is somthing wrong.? It bothers me real bad... I hope my parents don't find out though! they will kill me and never let me hang out with my guy friends again. and i am like upsesed with boys and i sometimes like... i am curious about sexual and stuff. i am get scared to ask my mom because i feel a little bit embarressed. she caught me masterbateing once in mi room she just walked in and stared at me she encouraged me to do it and even bout me a vibrator. JUST PLEASE HELP ME and does anyone have advice about what i should do boutmy problem?? help!
Well....he could have had an STI, I would go to the doctors. The buring when you pee could be a vaginal inefection, like a yeast infection. I would tell your mom and just go to the doctors. You want to be safe!! You are young and have a long life ahead of you..just be smart and safe!!
I can't tell my mom! I really can't i am scared and she is goin to kill me!
I am really scared!!! really really really scared it hurts and it bothers me but...I just can't........ i am scared!
Well...its either tell your mom or live with the buring pain which will only get worse if not treated properly. I would take a chance and tell your mom. You don't even have to tell her you have had sex, just tell her that you are having some below the belt discomfort and she will take you to the doctors hopefully.
i agree with her. i mean you dont have to tell her. i mean, i was your age once. my mom caught me masterbating too. im 16 now. but i felt really horrible in the abdomen area and i told my mom and she was like " are you expecting your period" and that wasnt it. but shes like "hmmm... then what could it be from?" and i told her that i had sex the other night. she didnt really get mad. she just was worried with all of the preganacy stuff and STD's and everything. but still lets me see him. ive been with him for 3 years now. she told me im not aloud to see him again at first but i was like " but i love him mom!" and all that other stuff. oh yeah. and when all this happend was like a couple days after my 14th birthday. but remember.... always use a condom. since you probably cant get any cause you 2 are young you can find some samples on the trogan website or the durex website. i hope i helped
Well if you cant tell your mom, is there a close family member? Maybe an aunt or one of your friends mom can take you to a clinic or something. is there a planned parent hood around your area?
Well... i had to like tell sombody so i told mi 17 yr old sister and she is like no help and was yellin at me i wanted 2 like cry. she was like you had sex and your only like 10 and i was said 13 and she said ohh... big difference.with who anyway? and why would u do that? and i said i don't know he wanted 2 do some expirementing and see what it is like i m an id**t and she u r just so stupid so you did it because he wanted to do expirementing you say no you should not hav sex at your age i can't even believe you. and then i was told her about how my vagina burns and itches and has bumps and she is like oh its fine its probably just some type of infection.She was bein kinda mean to me she always yells at me and i just made a huge mistake goin to her for advice i m an id**t.......!!!!!!!!!!!i kno i say like alot sorry!.....
I do not mean to sound rude, but I don't think you should be having sex at your age in the first place. I started having sex at 13 with a much olderp erson and now Im 21 and I regret every moment of it now. It is not worth it! You will get a bad name if you continue to do this. About your problem though, you need to suck it up and tell your mom, becuz believe it or not the reason she will get upset with you is becuz she loves you and cares about you. If she didnt do that then I would be worried.
well about 2 weeks ago i had sex in thewater for the first time ever but it was in lake water so then i had discharge redness swelling then it all went away when i took the 3 day yeast infection kit from wal mart... but i found blisters where i had been itching so that wasnt anything... but the other day i was puttin on my antibiotic ointment and i discovered BUMPS right on the vagina opening!!!!! they dont hurt though i dont want to tell my mom or my boyfriend what do i do or can somebody pleasy tell me what it is!!!!
you definitely need to go and see a doctor it sounds like you have some sort of vaginal infection that needs immediate attention better get it treated now than later the funny things about STDs are that the get worst as you wait
thts the same thing thts goin onn withh mee mean thts crazyyy i mean everything yu saying i gt tha same thing happing too mee i wnt to known wht i gttt!