Does anyone else have this problem?
When stimulated (clitoris) I experience NO pleasure, The wierd thing is I can come to orgasm, but on the way there there is no pleasure. I have been trying for years, w/ different things. toys,positions. This isn't normal right? (I am well in my 20's and I am married) Can anyone help me?
When stimulated (clitoris) I experience NO pleasure, The wierd thing is I can come to orgasm, but on the way there there is no pleasure. I have been trying for years, w/ different things. toys,positions. This isn't normal right? (I am well in my 20's and I am married) Can anyone help me?
A clitoral orgasm may feel good physically, but if you have no pleasure on the way to the top, that's no fun!
Some suggestions for you:
- Experiment with tensing and relaxing your pelvic floor muscles during masturbation, it really makes a big difference for some women.
- Try either fantasizing about sexy scenarios while masturbating, or on the other hand, simply focus on the physical aspect of what you are feeling. Different things work for different people.
- Are you feeling any guilt about masturbation, by any chance? It's a common thing and it can mess with your enjoyment.
Some women have true medical problems relating to blood flow, but I don't think that is you because you say you can get to orgasm.