hello.
im 17 years old and i have never had sex. ihave posted twive and no one has responded. i am really nervous and kind of worried. my boyfriend fingered me as well as went down on me, i wanted to know if anythign bad could result of this and if i was still considered a virgin? could someone please respond. thank you i would greatly appreciate it.
im 17 years old and i have never had sex. ihave posted twive and no one has responded. i am really nervous and kind of worried. my boyfriend fingered me as well as went down on me, i wanted to know if anythign bad could result of this and if i was still considered a virgin? could someone please respond. thank you i would greatly appreciate it.
generally, most people say that a virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse, and since you haven't had vaginal penetrative sex, you would be considered a virgin
Hey, What you have done will not resort to anything bad happening. You are still a virgin untill you have sexual intercourse with your boyfriend. ( As far as I know anyways). Hope this post helped you, as no one else replied!
stop having religious paranoia n lighten up i believe in God and all but the catholic religion has sum irrational beliefs, its kinda mean to let ur bf do all that 2 you but not actually f**k him or at least blow him. enjoy life if i ate my gf out shed b begging to b screwed n id b hard as a rock :-D
^^ X2 let him rail you all night long it feels good.... or so my girlfriend tells me
yes your are still a virgin until you have intercourse and nothing bad can prevent you be fine just enjoy pleasure of your boyfriend but if you have intercourse use a condom (:
I'm aware that this post was years ago. Still, better to post late than not at all. Here goes...
It sounds like you're more worried on a spiritual level. Go to confession and confess the sins and the respective number of times it happened. Be strong - take a stand on this with your boyfriend (or future boyfriends) and say you want to hold off on any further sexual activity until you're married. If he grumbles constantly or continually tries to engage you in it again, say NO. Apply the three-stike rule: third time he brings it up in a negative way, go and find someone better for you with firmer beliefs.
There's a lot of good resources out there on this: a great Catholic one is "Theology of the Body" - you might want to get a beginner's guide.
Finally, pray about this. You don't have to do it alone.
Good luck!
It sounds like you're more worried on a spiritual level. Go to confession and confess the sins and the respective number of times it happened. Be strong - take a stand on this with your boyfriend (or future boyfriends) and say you want to hold off on any further sexual activity until you're married. If he grumbles constantly or continually tries to engage you in it again, say NO. Apply the three-stike rule: third time he brings it up in a negative way, go and find someone better for you with firmer beliefs.
There's a lot of good resources out there on this: a great Catholic one is "Theology of the Body" - you might want to get a beginner's guide.
Finally, pray about this. You don't have to do it alone.
Good luck!