I want to get on top but ive never done that before and i'm worried it will just be a embarassing disaster... any suggestions?
Just go for it! If it helps, watch porn online first to get a general idea of how to sit/lay before you do it. Also tell him you haven't been on top before so you might need a little practice before it gets easy and he can help you.
Just say, "I want to ride your [use whatever word you feel comfortable with]. Can you help me? I've never done this before."
If he's not absolutely thrilled by this, and happy to help you in any way that he can, check his pulse. You may have just given him a heart attack. ;-)
Seriously, though. If he has a brain between his ears, he's going to be very helpful, patient and encouraging, because if he isn't, he might have missed a golden opportunity.
By the way, go tinkle before you start making love. You'll want your bladder to be empty before you play cowgirl.
If he's not absolutely thrilled by this, and happy to help you in any way that he can, check his pulse. You may have just given him a heart attack. ;-)
Seriously, though. If he has a brain between his ears, he's going to be very helpful, patient and encouraging, because if he isn't, he might have missed a golden opportunity.
By the way, go tinkle before you start making love. You'll want your bladder to be empty before you play cowgirl.