Ok so my new boyfriend and I had sex on Tuesday for the first time, we had sex probably around 5 times.
He was "too big" for me so it hurt REALLY bad, and I was in pain all week.
It didn't want to fit at all.
The Friday I spent the night and we had sex over 10 times.
It didnt quit hurting, and I've NEVER felt this pain before.
The last time we had sex on Saturday I cried, even after he had "done things" to me to try to make me more wet and get me used to the size.
Now it's Sunday and I'm home.
It burns everytime I pee to the point where I cry.
And it hurts to sit a lot.
There is alot of discharge too, white with a yellow tint.
And I just looked at myself today and I noticed I have a bump right where my "vagina crack" starts [Im sorry I dont know the actual word for it] that looks like a cut and there are a few bumps on the inside of my lips that are painful when touched, but there's no color. They just look like pimples with no head. So my question is, considering the fact that I WASNT WELL LUBRICATED when we had sex multiple times, do they sound like I'm just irritated and there are cuts or does it sound like something else?
Thak you for all the help.
He was "too big" for me so it hurt REALLY bad, and I was in pain all week.
It didn't want to fit at all.
The Friday I spent the night and we had sex over 10 times.
It didnt quit hurting, and I've NEVER felt this pain before.
The last time we had sex on Saturday I cried, even after he had "done things" to me to try to make me more wet and get me used to the size.
Now it's Sunday and I'm home.
It burns everytime I pee to the point where I cry.
And it hurts to sit a lot.
There is alot of discharge too, white with a yellow tint.
And I just looked at myself today and I noticed I have a bump right where my "vagina crack" starts [Im sorry I dont know the actual word for it] that looks like a cut and there are a few bumps on the inside of my lips that are painful when touched, but there's no color. They just look like pimples with no head. So my question is, considering the fact that I WASNT WELL LUBRICATED when we had sex multiple times, do they sound like I'm just irritated and there are cuts or does it sound like something else?
Thak you for all the help.
Hi! You are probably just irritated. But there are a lot or possible reasons why a bump has developed in your vaginal area. Pain during penetration may be associated with a range of factors, including: insufficient lubrication, injury, trauma or irritation, inflammation, infection or skin disorder, reaction to birth control products. An infection of your cervix, uterus or fallopian tubes can cause deep pain. Sometimes a more severe condition called vaginismus is responsible for vaginal tightness; women with vaginismus experience strong, involuntary muscle spasms of the vaginal muscles during sexual intercourse or vaginal penetration by any object, including fingers and tampons.
If he used a condom or lube you could just be having an allergic reaction, if it continues after sex a few more times you should get tested for stds and see if you could be allergic to lubricants.