So here is the REAL PROBLEM, I've read several posts here and other places from ppl with the same loose long foreskin as me, but usually their problems is because the head is too sensitive it leads to fast ejaculate etc. My problem is even though my glans is sensitive, I hardly feel anything at all when inside a vagina, yes nothing at all, a bit of contradiction isn't it since my glans is sensitive. But when given oral sex, I feel painful it makes me wanna jump when my partner does it too fast.
This is stressful for me, masturbating feels good for me but I cannot stand having sex, entering a vagina with no feeling at all, how can I solve this problem? Any help or advice would be vastly appreciated.
The solution may be as simple as practicing masturbation by hand until your penis is less sensitive.
You may also want to work with your partner, when receiving oral, just to slow her down and tell them HOW VERY SENSITIVE you are. (Compare it to going to town on her clit...that should get the idea across...)
As far as feeling nothing inside the vagina, have you considered either wearing a penis ring to help hold the foreskin back, or roll the foreskin back, and then apply a condom. This might hold the foreskin back, yet deaden the sensation through the condom.
There are creams to help deaden sensation that you could apply to the penis head...however, during intercourse or oral, that gel can and does get transfered very easily to your partner. If you apply it, wait awhile, and then procede after washing it off, you might have more success.
Good luck.
Let's see if anyone else has any other suggestions.
Any other advice is welcomed guys, man I want to experience real sex so much this is painful for me
If you have a long foreskin, one does not have much choice. A long foreskin will cover the glans when you let it go. I have a long foreskin and it simply will not stay back. I am always covered.
The method of masturbation that you describe is a popular one that works well for most people who are blessed with a foreskin.
If you are using a condom, when you are having sex, it is very likely that the condom, not your foreskin, is preventing you from feeling anything. I think your solution may be to work out another method of birth control with your partner. For oral sex, ask your partner to take it easy. Ask her to suck the foreskin instead of the head.
Ask your girlfriend to go on the pill or have an IUD inserted into her uterus. Then you can have sex without a condom. I think that will fix your problem.