i'm 29 and have been keeping my foreskin retracted 90% of the time. In the beginning, it was hard to keep my foreskin retracted because my head was rubbing against my underwear which creates frequent arousal. But after that, when my head was less sensitive, it didn't have this problem. I keep my foreskin retracted 24/7 because it keeps it clean and it reduce the sensation so I can last longer. Also, I like the look of my head exposed but i dont want to go underneath the knift.
I think some of these posts rather miss the point of permanent retraction. Yes the knob will be permanently changed in exactly the same way that it will on a circumcised penis but that is the whole point of the exercise - to become bareknobbed without having to be cut. This process will only suit some cocks and will never work on others. I have been permanently retracted for years and I prefer it partly because it is inherently more hygienic and partly because I prefer the way it looks and feels. Where sex and masturbation are concerned my pleasure is now increased for whatever reason. I went through a training period when I wore a stainless steel ring of appropriate size behind my knob to hold the skin back but once it had dried and toughened up it stayed back of its own accord. As I say, for those who want to do this it does depend on your penis, pure and simple.
Hi all.
been reading a lot of these posts for a while now, i turned 13 last month and since i started puberty at about 10 i had always got the sticky cheese smelling stuff inside my penis. a couple of weeks ago at the pool i got a huge errection and my penis bled a little. on the walk home my penis kept going errect inside my speedos, later hat evening when i showered i noticed theforeskin was fully retracted and i could see whare the beeding had taken place. thinking no more about it i left it that way so the small cut would heal better.
the following day i was going to the pool again so i put my speedos on again and the errection came back again. but as the day went on they became less often, but i did like the new feel to my penis. i also liked the way it looked too.
i left the skin retracted for a few days then pushed it back again, but did not like the way it felt so since then i have had it retracted. discussing this with a friend at the weekend and it seems this is quite normal. plus i have noticed no more cheesy build up inside the penis. so a double result.
just a little worried about our family holiday next week my parents dont know yet that i have the skin retracted and not sure how they will react to the difference in my appearance. i may be worrying too much, they may not notice as it has been a few months since they saw me in a speedo. i never take the speedo off in front of them so as my friend says it is normal growth in puberty.
My son (14) is the typical teenage boy, started puberty a little earlier than most at 9 but he did not have the horible acne spots most of the other boys have. but unless he is going somewhere and he wants to impress he needs a little asking to take a shower. he found out quite a few years ago about retracting his foreskin as i found out recently on a family holiday. he wears speedos to swim but puts board shorts on over them to blend in with the other boys his age. the problem was he wore the same speedos and board shorts for a week. before he started keeping the skin retracted this would not have been possible due to the smell.
he had kept the skin retraction a secret from me although we did have a discussion the day i found out. he tells me it is more comfortable and some of his friends have had the skin cut away. he says as long as he can keep the skin back he will as he does not want the operation. i must say as his mother it does look neater when his speedos cling when he gets out of the pool. just a little unsure about what is happening with the skin, as it will be all bunched up down the shaft of his penis. but he say he likes it....
My feeling is it's your penis, if you like the skin back and you are lucky enough that it will stay that way, wear it like that. I never had that option as mine wouldn't stay there. Sometimes when I masturbated before going to sleep at night I left it back because it was tight and was sort of stuck behind my erect glans. If it was still there when I woke up in the morning I liked the way it felt dry and not too sensitive but it wouldn't stay there.
Maybe your family will like your look if they do notice it. If you don't want to tell them you do that on purpose you can say it just goes gets that way by itself sometimes when it gets erect. They surely must have noticed your erections in the speedos.
Anyway, it's yours and you don't need to make excuses for the way you like it.
Was it your frenulum that bled from getting torn due to the erection? How does it feel now?
I don't think you need to worry about the skin. It is fine either rolled back or not. I certainly would not encourage him to go for the operation as there is no need. I like the feeling when I have mine back, it has just the right sensitivity. It feels great when I touch it for my pleasure. I remember the kids who were circed, when I was young. They had absolutely no feeling in their glans. Because mine stays covered much of the time it has not become completely insensitive and I think this way is much better. I can enjoy it bare and dry but cover it when I want.
I think girls, which includes you as his mother, do like the looks of a penis with the head fully exposed and prefer to see that through speedos. I think that shape is supposed to be attractive to the female and it can't be seen if the foreskin is covering it.
My foreskin gradually got shorter during puberty to the point that it is now fully back all the time, I can cover the glans back over but within a few minutes it has totally exposed itself again, if it is not painful then really there is no problem. If that is how it wants to be just let it happen
no of course not, its when you never pull it back that paraphimosis happens. Right now i keep it back and it looks cut by putting tape round the inning liner and a rubber johniie UHU glued over it, it feels just like a proper circ without the surgery needed
a friend who also has boys told me of the auto circumcision method. which i tried for myself fo a month and found it to be better and cleaner. so i got the boys to sit and talk one evening and told them what i had found and asked them to try it. both boys had no problem retracting all the way back. they were wearing board shorts with nothing under them, so they had a few errections with the un protected penis rubbing the material of the shorts. and they had to keep retracting the skin a few times a day. so after a week they asked for speedos. they had been talking with friends and most if not all of their friends were doing the same, but wore spedos under the shorts. id di help holding the skin back and reduced the frequency of the errections. or at least keep them under control. both boys refused tpo go back to boxers at the end of the summer and carried on wearing the speedos as daily underwear. but at least they did not smell of rotting cheese, they do still tend to wear the same speedo for a week at a stretch, but with school swim they do get to shower in them at the pool and i have installed an outdoor shower at home they find that fun showering outdoors injust speedos. even in winter... go figure that one. but in general they have had no health issues through keeping the skin retracted, buth boys say they like the feel better and they like the way it looks too.
i know it cannot be rellated,,, but neither boy has had a common cold since. i suppose it could be down to cold water swimming late into the autumn at the lake. acclimatizing them to colder maybe boosted their immune system who knows.
I am happy with retracted penis for more than 10 years and couldn't want to live with it even for a second, now I am of 37.Being circumcised always fascinated me during my childhood as being a Hindu I can't go for that so I tried it and it worked successfully...now I have what I desired.There is not any demerit in permanent retraction,actually it gave me more pleasure,my hamlet is now totally dry and keratinised but is not a problem for me as I stay longer during sex with my less sensitized love maker. Weathered penis-head is well able to withstand rough handling,rubbing and even pinching during fore play, I passionately enjoy it when my wife stroke my hamlet and shaft without any lubricant. There are many other benefits of it like hygiene and confident look when being nude before female partner.