I haven't had any sexual contact in over a year and he was my first. I was his 3rd, the first 2 were his ex girlfriends. I've been feeling a lump by my anus for a little while now and I'm not sue if it's a wart or what... I have a feeling it is. I'm just getting into my first relationship (we haven't had sex yet) and I'm terrified to tell him if it is. I know I have to, and I will.. but I'm just so scared. It's a hard lump, not itchy, doesn't bleed. I'm talking about the little white lump