PRECUM AND PREGNANCY

Okay I have a question I'm only a teenager and me and my boyfriend you know sorta got it on...and if I give him a blowjob before he stuck it in me is there a possibility I could become pregnant from that...because I gave him 4 blowjobs and he came with those 4 but not with the 5th one and I salivated his penis before we had unprotected sex and would he still have any cum on his penis after I gave him a blowjob before we had sex? I'm soooooo scared please please please respond asap

So wasn't pregnant?

i had precum and my gf blew me, and after that i insert 1/4 of penis and decided to use condom so i pull it. will that cause my gf pregnant?

I had sex with my girlfriend 3 times 2 times I used condom at the last time I had stress so I couldn't with condom so I tried without condom and I didn't saw any precum on my penis maybe I had stress that's why and I pull out on Time did she have any chance to be pregnant ?

Can someone help me? This afternoon i was with my boyfriend and although we didn't have sex, he put the tip of his penis on my vagina, i didn't care much because I'm on birth control (and after that i washed my vagina) but now that I was going to take today's pill i realised i had forgotten to take the pill yesterday. I'm on the middle of the tablet and i read that it's less likely to get pregnant if I'm on the middle and not on the start or end but I'm really worried right now! Considering all of the things I read here I'm thinking the probability of getting pregnant is low but still i can't stop thinking about it as I'm way too young for this.
I'm only one week away from getting my period so I guess I'll wait those days and see what happens.. I'm really disappointed with myself for forgetting the pill!

I washed my penis with soap, peed as well and then had sex with her during her periods and didnot cum in her! Can she get pregnant ?

Hi. This is a year later from your post but I'll tell you my story. I was given two choices with my fiance when the church found out. I'm not overly religious but I do understand the concept. My husband and I were sexual outside of marriage the church said we either marry within the month or we had to leave the church. We chose to get married, two years later I fell pregnant on the pill. I was 7 weeks pregnant when I miscarried. The pill hadn't left my system and my hormones dropped fast, that was the reason I misscarried. Im debating for the next one whether it is worth stopping the pill a month or two before I plan to fall pregnant again or just see what happens. I dont want to lose another baby for being on the pill but I want to test this theory about whether oral contraceptives are 91% accurate or if i indeed i did fall pregnant on the pill and for no other reason.
Bare with me while I answer your question and I hope I havent caused you anxiety. My husband and I were eachothers first and at the time we thought we were in love but now we realise it was just lust! He was 30 and I was 18, we grew up together in the same church and I'm very sure we were in love because we had to fight my parents the entire way to the alter. I was determined to marry him because I was in love. We have been married 3 years now and have a daughter at 17 months today but five years ago, we were both virgins. We did start sexually rubbing eachother through the undies but one day we just couldn't help ourselves. He had severe paranoia so we used a condom but my hyman wasn't broken and when he penetrated it tore me open and immediately I started to bleed. The bleeding was like another heavy period and it lasted four hours and then the bleeding stopped but I was still in pain. The doctor said no intercourse for three weeks to give time to heal. Being so paranoid we did not touch. Afterwards he used his finger and I gave handjobs because I was anxious id be hurt again. It was an accident i was hurt, we were both naive but he has always been very considerate loving gentle man. Now he is still just as sexually active with me but I lost most desire during pregnacy and taken a year to recover. Now the precum my husband gets he uses as lube. Its more powerful and sensual and thin than the lube you buy at the shops. I arouse very quickly with the liquid that comes first as he gets excited and it's only now that I have read and go gosh ahhh I hope I don't end up pregnant with it!! But I've been off the pill for six months, we still use condoms and his "lube" and I haven't fallen pregnant. A few times I experiment with him by slowly pushing him in gently before he gets too aroused and pulling out and I've recently started the pill again and I haven't fallen pregnant! Don't know if my story helps?! :-)
I would like to give advice, sex within marriage is very powerful and if you have married the right man, no matter how many years have passed the sex is never changing but so fulfilling, it brings deep satisfaction and deep emotional connection. Also unless you and your husband are prepared to start a family I wouldn't experiment without condoms. We dont trust the pill but with condoms unless they snap you won't fall pregnant! We are currently planning to have our second baby even though we are not entirely ready. But if your husband respects and loves you and he is wanting to experiment and you both have planned a pregnancy, if you fall pregnant well the baby will be born in nine months instead of the planned 18 months to two years! Accidents can happen but if you are married and you love and support eachother, you won't feel guilty or anxious if you do end up with a surprise! :-) We do regret having sex before marriage for our religion regards it as a sin but now that we are married and devoted to eachother we hope we can be forgiven! :-) I have never bled from intercouse ever since I broke my hyman. Also while on the pill I fell pregnant within three weeks but my husband and I had to have unprotected sex frequently for about 2 months before I fell pregnant again after I stopped the pill. I cant vouch for others only myself!
But yes id advise to wait until you are married before you have sex because with your husband within marriage, there is freedom and satisfaction, no guilt or paranoia or anxiety. You can fool around within marriage and if you fall pregnant, you and your husband can feel closer and more intimate through the experience without the fear. Sure your still get anxious but you'll have him by your side for life for comfort. In regards to pregnancy, labour and babies, toddlers, and parents, my advice is, no one is ever ready to have kids, no matter how you organise or plan. For my future pregnancy and baby no matter how much I plan it'll be different because I'll be looking after two babies instead of one! Get ready to multi task I tell myself :-) You also don't need to always believe what every person tells you because every baby is different, every parent and every family. There is no one who knows everything and what might work for one child doesn't always work for the other. Your child will be unique and individual, no milestone is accurate to every baby either. One baby might crawl or walk six months later or earlier than your kid but who cares! They grow up to be like everyone else. Just do the best you can, if your child is happy and successful, people like your kids and they are well behaved that is all that matters! Boy or girl as long as their healthy! I do reccommend looking into your families and seeing how they did bring their kids up! You can say yes no I like this or I dont like this. Life will never be the same once you have kids and no matter how much you plan sometimes its not always enough. Go with the flow when you do start a family, believe in yourself and your partner and try and live the best life you can for you and your children! :-)
Enough advice from me, im only 23 but have been through so much! My parents didn't like the age difference between me and my husband and they desperately tried to break us up but we prevailed! My husband loves and adores his wife and daughter, he works hard to provide for his family and now my parents love him! Haha! :-) He calls me his bonk partner, so funny! Anyway from my heart to yours I wish you the best. Find out what you want in life and strive to work on it! Be determined to save yourself for marriage, your mental health and your hubby deserve to have you at your best! Continue to seek help if you need it. No question is a stupid question, there is not always a right answer or the right advice. Stick to your instincts and if something doesnt feel right or your conscious screams at you I'd listen. Hope what I said has helped or at least has been a good read! :-) xoxo

Hi I'm a female not a bloke so I'm not 100% skilled with the male brain but paranoia is a great thing because if she isn't pregnant now there is the less likely chance she will fall pregnant but you must use a condom- everytime. Also girls attach with emotions and connect with you. If you're not ready for a serious relationship, not planning to marry and you don't want to be a father and support your woman financially than condoms will save your skin more times than you can count. I would also suggest she takes the emergancy pill within the 72 hours and she gets a pregnancy test. Long term contraceptives will help (if she's not already pregnant ). I'm not saying this to scare you but to help cos Ive been there and ive fallen pregnant twice. Lost one baby but I now have a 17 month old. Precum is just lube as long as it's clear and I didnt fall pregnant with it. Intercourse nearly everytime will get her pregnant if you ejaculate or have not washed yourself since last time. Washing yourself and peeing before another round will reduce the chances of semen spreading but its still possible. If you're not ready for responsibility dont do it! If sex is for fun and fulfilling desires, nothing wrong with condoms. Save yourself the anxiety of not having sex when your stressed. If you are serious about this woman dont rush things and remember shes probably fallen and love and will cling to you like glue. I don't know how much the male brain knows about females but from experience I have married the man who got me pregnant and even after 3 years of marriage, he's still just as turned on for a good time and paranoid about getting me pregnant. I'm just as in love and wanting to be intimate and cling to my husband emotionally like glue. He works 14 hour days 5 days a week and on the times he's at home he's either washing dishes, changing a pooey nappy or consoling his over emotional wife because the kids are mucking up or her hormones are out of control. To answer your question or unless you have a surprise pregnancy on the way, there is still a high chance you have gotten your woman pregnant if you have had sex without protection. Stress is not a great thing but in your case i hope it saves you and your girlfriend from having an unwanted pregnancy. I appologise for any offence or fear I have presented here but unfortunately accidents happen and there is a thin line between pleasure and pain! The reality of life and the consequences to actions! Best of luck to you both. Also find out what you both want before it gets too serious and you'll save yourselves from getting hurt or offended, if you know what the other person is thinking! Talk to eachother too, its want you both want but consider carefully! If you're not ready to tackle new life together, save 20 years to life of looking after children by using a condom! A few minutes of pleasure is nothing compared to being parents! I assure you for someone who is contemplating having number 2! :-)
Cheers!

Hi can I be rude and ask you about your age? I started having sex at 18, my husband now was at the time 30. I think condoms and paranoia have saved us more times than we can count. If you've missed one day you should be fine but take the pill the day after. I don't want to frighten you but I fell pregnant on the pill but then I miscarried at 7 weeks. After stopping the pill it took 2-3 months of frequent sex until I fell pregnant because I didnt realise the pill had been in my system for so long. If you continue and don't miss more than one tablet, you should be fine. I missed two tablets about a month ago and had my period. Also to cheer you up I wasn't on the pill for six months after I had my first baby and my husband wore a condom every time and I didn't fall pregnant! The lube he excretes has not made me pregnant. If he hasn't recently ejaculated and he has peeed before he has sex you both should be fine. Its still too risky to even attempt intercourse without protection even on the pill, and unless you both want to be parents and your ready, I wouldn't attempt it a second time. Dont be disappointed you forgot, I did occasionally too and I was fine! I would wait till you are married to experiment or at least older and you know he's going to stick around if something happens. Best of luck to you hun! Take care :-)

First of all be prepared to take this woman as your wife and be ready to support her financially, she'll need both to succeed. I don't want to be rude but if you havent considered the possibilities before you decided to take your clothes off than that was irresponsible. A few minutes of pleasure compared to 20 years of parenthood I wouldnt risk it again. My husband got me pregnant and he's working just as hard away from home as I am with a toddler at home. If she isn't pregnant fantastic! My husband wants a second and wants no protection in the long run but he does not realise how hard it is going to be for me or for him. Hes going to have to get the chop unless he wants to be up all night to two screaming mouths to feed! Unless your ready for responsibility I wouldn't waste your freedom for a few minutes of pleasure. Im sure you adore your girlfriend so do whats best for her, I hope she is not as reckless as you! Best of luck making the best decisions for you both! :-)

First of all I hope she wasnt bleeding at the time of her period? Thats disgusting! I wait until the last day of mine when I dry up to even contemplate having sex during bleeding time. I hope you used a condom because the best way to fall pregnant is two weeks either side of her bleeding and they say even during her period its not safe! I hope that the both of you are safe. As a mum on my own, the pleasure isnt worth the hard work. Lucky I am married but unless your planning to marry and support your girlfriend I wouldn't risk it! :-)

Baby how old are you? I've been married 3 years and I would never give a blow job! He might like it but it's not sanitary. You cant fall pregnant by a blowjob but unprotected sex, definately! If he did cum and it wasnt inside you than your safe. If he hasn't ejaculated before he goes inside you you should be fine but if you've already had sex then there would be leftovers. Unfortunately I dont think saliva would kill sperm and I don't think blowjobs prevent you from getting pregnant even before sex! Sorry babe. Ive seen too many young girls fall pregnant. If you were in your 30s id be less worried but you're a teen and unless your boyfriend is a future husband id be careful in the future. You dont want to end up being a single parent. Parenting is hard and unless you're prepared and he is prepared, I would stop or use a condom. Id wait till you were older personally. Im a mum at 23 and im still paranoid about falling pregnant doing unprotected sex. I was pregnant quite fast at 21. I'm married but even as we started sleeping together when I was 18 I was on contraceptives and we used condoms. If you're that frightened stop! The pleasure is not worth the anxiety or pregnancy. There's a pill you can take that will help prevent pregnancy but you need to take it within 72 hours. I advise you research and think before you do anything else. Best of luck honey and keep asking for help! The best people always do! :-)

my boyfriend and i were about to have sex. it was our first time and we were too blind not to use any protection. so, because i'm still a virgin, when he was about to insert his penis inside my vagina, it was hurt as hell (and i know sex is kinda painful). i was on top of him and we were trying to figure out where and how could he put his penis inside of me. because of the pain, i thought we should stop. while i was thinking about that, i could feel i did an orgasm or he did a precum. we had no idea. but i was so sure that it was ME. when we gave up about putting his penis in my vagina, i gave him an oral and with that, he ejaculated.


my questions are:
1. can we human tell which one is female orgasm and which one is male orgasm? i mean, do they have different smell?
2. before we had sexual activities (it was at 6pm), earlier that afternoon around 10-12pm, he was masturbating. them at 3pm to 4pm, i gave him an oral. does it mean i lick every tiny-leftover-post-cum on his penis? 
3. we were so innocent. in conclusion, a) we did sexual activity but he didn't fully insert his penis in me, b) i could feel it was my orgasm but i wasn't sure. but from the smell, it was mine. c) he ejaculated outside after 3-5 minutes his penis near my vagina. and i did give him an oral. with the story that i write above, is there any chance that im pregnant? i hope im not.

Hiyya, you might bleed after intercourse, you might not , but it is unlikely you will if your hymen has now been broken and it is highly unlikely you could be pregnant :) hope this helps

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