Hi,
About two or three weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were fooling around. He was on top and I was giving him a hand job. He pre-cummed a little before he ejaculated and some pre-cum landed on my yoga pants right above my private area. Right after he fingered me. I'm nervous that he brushed up against the spot in which the pre-cum was or if he had some on his hand when he fingered me. I freaked out when it first happened, but forgot about it soon after. It wasn't until 2 days ago when I woke up nauseas and blamed it on being pregnant. I am on birth control and took a pregnancy test and it came out negative, yet I am still nervous. Any word to put my mind to ease? Help?
I also forgot to add, my birth control makes my period come every 3 months and I have 2 more to go until I get it, so I can't tell if I am or not.
Alright, lets not be rude. So you're saying that because I am so worried, I'm letting myself think I am an creating the symptoms in my head?
Let me explain it since some people can be rather rude. Pre-cum in some men can contain sperm but since it was above your vagina it may not have gotten inside of you. He can transfer sperm if he touched his penis with ejaculation or pre-cum on it and then finger you making it possible to get pregnant. Stress and nerves can cause you to throw up and worrying about pregnancy is a major stressor. I think you will be fine but try to be a little more careful with his cum because all it takes is one to become pregnant. If you start developing a lot of symptoms or experiencing pain you can retest using a pregnancy test. Since your pregnancy test you took came out negative also I would say your not pregnant. Hope this helped and if you have any more questions feel free to ask me.
Thank you very much, I appreciate it! I have a feeling in the back of my mind that I am not, but I have bad anxiety so my worries are always worse. I can't remember exactly what happened, because it was a few weeks ago and I didn't think much of it when it happened, but even my boyfriend says he remembers it and that I am fine. He assured me that he is careful about that and wiped it off, but I am still nervous. I plan to test again, but I've been fine.I've been so worried and embarassed to talk to anyone, along with scared. Thank you I appreciate it