please i need help, possibly pregnant at 16 i'm not what most teenage girls are, i'm with my very supportive and loving boyfriend but i'm 99% sure i'm pregnant, i wasn't on the pill i didn't know how i could get it without mum finding out, but he used a condom and checked often to see if it was broken. we've had sex about 4 times, each time he was certain is didn't break. we live in a country town, the nearest city is canberra and that is about 4 hours away. my family doesn't have a doctor or anything and neither does my boyfriend. i CAN NOT HAVE A BABY. i'm not religious in any way, though i don't feel great about having an abortion. if i tell my mum, she will make me have the baby and i understand why. i am so completely terrified. if i have a baby, i will ruin everyones lives. my family is already having a really tough time,, and i will destroy my boyfriends future. i feel so terrible. please i need information about abortions and how i can get one without my parents knowing. PLEASE, i know i will have to live with the emotional scarring of aborting a baby, but please, i'd rather face that than have a baby who depends on me. please. don't think i'm being selfish. i'm not, i'm suffering as well as my boyfriend is. please.
Hi Isabella,
Why do you think you're pregnant? Have you missed your period? If so, by how long?
Can you get a home pregnancy test?
Find out if you are pregnant FIRST then decide what you need to do.
Good luck.