me and my boyfriend want to wait until we are married to have sex but we mess around a little bit. i jacked him off and after we cleaned it up he fingered me. He had wiped his hands off with a napkin and we waited at least 3-5 min. i had just got off my period 2 days before and i am new to this kind of stuff and i do not know what to do. all i can do is worry
You shouldn't be allowed to be participating in any sexual activity if you need to ask questions like that. Sorry.
good for you for wanting to wait till marriage! although, if your doing anything sexually, you need to be educated. you can not get pregnant from a guy inserting his fingers in you. the minute sperm hits air, it's killed. and since you'll probably ask this question next.. no you can't get pregnant from oral sex. sounds to me like you are too young for all of this. there are books, websites, and clinics you can get all the information you need (planned parenthood). you need to be educated about sex and sexuality before engaging in ANY of it!!!!
Me and my boyfriend decided to have oral sex once, instead of actual sex. We want to wait for that. But after we did, he fingered me. And I did swallow. Could I be pregnant?