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Pregnant & unsure of the father

By Watermelon286 | 1 post, last post
Kate Smith answered this 'I Don't Know Who The Father Of My Baby Is. What Now?'
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Watermelon286

I am in a really bad situation and I feel horrible. I never worried about it until now, and I am around 13 weeks pregnant & found out weeks ago. Anyways, I am unsure of any exact dates, I didn't really pay attention to them, but my lmp was I'm pretty positive the very beginning of June. I cannot remember exactly what day but my boyfriend at the time did come in me for the first time ever near the beginning towards the middle of that month. We have had sex many times, and I did not have a period after he came in me, but I wouldn't be sure of the baby being his because I was with one other person.. We were apart from the 12th til about the 20th and broke up around this time, well my ex which is also the guy I lost my virginity to I ended up hanging out with on the 20th, once again I am not positive of these dates I have tried guessing the best I could, and we had sex. It was not intense, and he did not come at all, but we didn't have protection. I asked him many times to stop and it didn't last very long. I'm about 12-13 weeks like I said, so who would be more likely to be the father? I'm already in a bad enough situation because I am no longer with him and the thing with my other ex was a one night thing and I regret it, but I need a little help please

medic-dan109453

Hi Watermelon,

Unfortunately, it's all a guess without exact dates.  Even then, there are variables that we can't control.  Anytime you have sex with multiple partners during a cycle there is a chance that any of them could be the father.

You had a NORMAL period at the very beginning of June?

You had sex around the middle of the month.  You normally would ovulate between days 11 and 16 of your cycle.  The egg is viable for about 48 hours, sperm for up to about 5 days. 

You could have gotten pregnant having sex from about the 6th to the 20th - assuming June 1 was when your period started.

It doesn't matter how long it lasted.  There is ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy with ANY sexual contact.  Precum can contain sperm and most guys can't tell when that's happening.

Based on your post it is "probably" your boyfriend at the beginning of June.  You will need a DNA test to confirm paternity.  It can be done now using your blood.  Google, non invasive DNA testing.

Good luck.


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