I have some questions and stuff...
1. After i do four-play? ... after i take my pants off . sometimes my penis is wet and im wondering if i cummed? or is this what they call pre-ejaculation. I dont even notice/feel myself cum... like when i take off my pants its just wet and i wonder if somethings wrong with me.. is that normal to not really feel myself cum? or pre-ejaculate? ( the stuff that comes out is more like a clear liquid )
2. I cant seem to CUM .. like when im having intercourse with my girlfriend or shes sucking me off. i can seem to cum.. is it because of the way i masturbate? I mean when i masturbate i can make myself cum and i feel it... and i see it after... but i cant see it or feel it when i have it with my girlfriend.
3. I think there something wrong with me... when i masturbate i dont stroke my penis up and down... instead I Apply pressure the bottom of my penis ( bottom meaning the other end of where the pee comes out from ) and i sorta stretch my legs.. ( like when you stretch you legs when you wake up i do that... ) so im pretty much applying pressure to the lower part of my body... no stroking motion what so ever..
O and when i tried to do the stroking motion up and down but i never cum and it doesnt feel that pleasurable. ...
Help me! please.. :-(
1. After i do four-play? ... after i take my pants off . sometimes my penis is wet and im wondering if i cummed? or is this what they call pre-ejaculation. I dont even notice/feel myself cum... like when i take off my pants its just wet and i wonder if somethings wrong with me.. is that normal to not really feel myself cum? or pre-ejaculate? ( the stuff that comes out is more like a clear liquid )
2. I cant seem to CUM .. like when im having intercourse with my girlfriend or shes sucking me off. i can seem to cum.. is it because of the way i masturbate? I mean when i masturbate i can make myself cum and i feel it... and i see it after... but i cant see it or feel it when i have it with my girlfriend.
3. I think there something wrong with me... when i masturbate i dont stroke my penis up and down... instead I Apply pressure the bottom of my penis ( bottom meaning the other end of where the pee comes out from ) and i sorta stretch my legs.. ( like when you stretch you legs when you wake up i do that... ) so im pretty much applying pressure to the lower part of my body... no stroking motion what so ever..
O and when i tried to do the stroking motion up and down but i never cum and it doesnt feel that pleasurable. ...
Help me! please.. :-(
HELP me anyone?
Ok the top 3 questoins might be confusing heres my problem in a sentence or 2.
- I can not Cum when having sex with my girlfriend oral during intercourse. I dont have ED , cause my penis is hard and striaght for a long time.. i'v had sex with her for 1 hour striaght with my penis hard but in the end i still had to fake cum... cause she had to leave...
- I've done it many times with my girlfriend but for some reason i never seem to cum... i get pre-ejaculation ... but i can never climax....
whats Wrong with me >.<... :-(
Ok the top 3 questoins might be confusing heres my problem in a sentence or 2.
- I can not Cum when having sex with my girlfriend oral during intercourse. I dont have ED , cause my penis is hard and striaght for a long time.. i'v had sex with her for 1 hour striaght with my penis hard but in the end i still had to fake cum... cause she had to leave...
- I've done it many times with my girlfriend but for some reason i never seem to cum... i get pre-ejaculation ... but i can never climax....
whats Wrong with me >.<... :-(
You have the sexual disorder known as delayed ejaculation (also known as retarded ejaculation). The cause is usually psychological, and the treatment is effective in a little over half all cases.
The first step is to see your doctor. He can rule out any medical causes, such as drug side-effects from any prescription medications you might be taking, and then refer you to a therapist.
Good luck.
The first step is to see your doctor. He can rule out any medical causes, such as drug side-effects from any prescription medications you might be taking, and then refer you to a therapist.
Good luck.
well the side effect drugs i can take that off the list cause im not on any medications... and i rarely take cough medication or head ache pills.... dam theropy... dozzy... no other way?...
Are you circumcised? I've only ever sucked/jerked two guys one was and one wasn't. The one who is is much harder to make cum as i have to be much more careful about the head since without the foreskin there is nothing sliding over it (i've been told men really enjoy this) and the head gets irritated by my hand. Solution: Lots and LOTS of lube, usually spit, or i'll grip far down and use was foreskin is left to rub over the head, stopping my index finger just at the bottom rim of his head, i've found he likes this the best. As far are oral i've never had much trouble, i use my jerking technique along with sucking and licking and swallowing (putting it as far back as i can and making myself "swallow" his penis, i always get a good reaction from it), and he usually cums pretty fast if i don't stop (if i stop he loses it and i have to start all over)
Hope this helps!