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Wow! I am flabbergasted. I am still in disbelief after reading all of these. I feel like I'm different, when I may have to join the club. I have 4 children. Everytime I was prego, I did not have a period. Everytime. I am in a new relationship. He has no children. But I don't want to have any now, for a long time, so I say. My youngest is almost 2. But I thought I was prego from him b-4. Wasn't. Had an internal ultrasound and saw no baby. I did have my period, but began spotting for about 4 days. That never happened to me b4. Now here I am again. Period 2 months late, up until last week. It seems regular. Clothes seem to be a nuisance. My jeans are tighter. I was pigging out on snack food, so of course I'm gonna assume it's weight gain. But i feel tired and moody at times. And so does my guy. He's been vomiting in the mornings on a few occasions. He's tired/sleepy. And even more moody than me! Took 3 prego tests (urine). Negative. Had an appt for a blood test. Didn't go. Don't want to know. I want to be in denial so that I won't feel sick. I hope that works. Last baby, I felt worse after the pregnancy was confirmed by a home test. By the way, I always take urine test and they read positive. Then I go to the doctor's for the urine/blood, and they say the same thing. Since I've been down this road 4 times, I'm assuming that something else is wrong, because how can they all of a sudden say negative and actually be positive? Naw, not me, right?
I'm waiting till next month to go to my original doctor. My breast are fine. I had issues months ago when i first thought i was and x-ed out a pregnancy once I had the internal ultrasound. But what if i was prego then up until now?! I don't know. My mind is going in all directions and I just want to pretend I'm normal. The longer it takes for me to find out the better I'll feel in the prior months. Don't want to respond to ppl asking what's wrong with you, with, "I'm pregnant." I'd rather say, "I'm just tired." I just don't want to feel sick. I have been gassy (like with the last child). But of course Imma say it's something I ate. But I am bleeding and it seems normal. I use to be really heavy and finally told the doc that I'm tired of this! Gave me pills to so call clean my uterine lining and after that they'v been more managerable. Not so messy and days shorter. I wonder if I was pregnant then. Same time of the ultrasound. The thing about those pills is that they're the same one's they gave me to stop my period from being heavy. So this time they were suppose to make me bleed out all the whatever that was on my uterus. I DON'T KNOW!!!! This is crazy.
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Ok so I posted a while back as babybabler or sumthing. I said I'd take a test and I did. It was negetive. I forgot about it after much convincing from a best mate that I had pregnancy hysteria (she watches too much tv). But I'm now growing out of my second size up.. My tummy has that funny angle in it and I feel pregnant..

Everyone asks me jokingly are you pregnant and I'm thinking I am.. I don't want to take another test cause I feel stupid but I want to know! Btw if I am I am 11-13 weeks.. I am still getting periods... Right on target and not light.. I can usualy look at someone and tell the Babies gender and it's just that feeling... >.
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Ok Its 'Baby babbler' again.. i took a second test.. it was also negative... but again im still not convinced.. my sister looked at my stomach today when i was checking it in the mirror and said 'holly cow!' then her faced changed and she said 'STOP PUSHING IT OUT!' i said im not.. [i cant push out my belly anymore.. its at full strech..] then her face changed again and she said 'OMG! haha fatty!'

my symtoms are following the week by week symtoms.. I crave chocolate... am hungry all the time, pee alot more than usual [i never go to the loo at school and i do everyday now..] ive felt fluttering in my tummy, and ive head head aches a lot... as well as the gas..

P.S. can any of the girls who posted on here who come back to see post there result.. i wanna know =/
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I am going through the same thing. I have two children ages 13 and 14 and am remarried. Those pregnancies were normal. I am now 42 and have been trying to get pregnant for 6 months. I thought I might have been pregnant last month because of the symptoms of being tired, hungry all the time, peeing all the time, certain smells setting me off. But I got my period at the normal time. I am on a 28 day cycle and never vary. Well this month I had the same symptoms and I was late. I took a pregnancy test. It came out negative at first, but after letting it sit for quite a while there was a light pink line. I went to the doctor that Monday and their urine test came back negative. I did a blood test and it came back positive, but I got my period 5 days late. It is a normal heavy period with clots. But I still feel pregnant. My belly is larger and harder, I am tired and hungry, etc. I guess I will go for another blood test on Monday again to see what is up.
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I am experiencing many changes in my body that seem to be the symptoms of pregnancy but cannot rule it out on a home pregnancy test. 7 months ago I had light spotting in between my period for 3 days. I thought it was implantation bleeding and that I was pregnant but my period came late the next month. Now, For the past 7 months I have only had 5 periods and I usually am regular with my cycles, Like clockwork. I have been gaining weight and for the past month my stomach has been hard and round. I felt fetal movement a while back often but after 3 more pregnancy tests, I stopped paying attention. Now I still feel what I think could be movement every once in a while when I am very still or just ate. I have never been pregnant before so I don't really know what the fetal movement feels like, but if I could imagine it, these flutters and bumps I feel would be it. Now as I said, for the past month I have been looking pregnant but you can only tell if I wear my usual tight shirts or am naked. Iv'e been told some women don't show until thier 8th month and when they do It just sort of happens over night. Anyways, getting to my point, My period is late again this month and this irregular-ness is concerning me. I really think I'm pregnant, But then again this could be a phantom pregnancy. Besides waiting and a blood test, What would be another way to find out if you are pregnant or not. :$
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Hi, I am wondering the same thing. I got married back during the first week of december. We had sex about 40 or 50 times during the first 6 days and just did the pull out method. He ended up making me immune to Hep B abd I was told that if that happened, then enough could have happened for me to get pregnant. My symptoms are from stress (I've had a ton of it) and pregnancy, so Idk???? I got kicked off of birth control back in august due to a blood clot and have been using bio-identical progesterone....

Symptoms -

more tired
less energy
increased desire for sex (I am still getting my periods and still want sex during them which has never happened before due to endometriosis)
occasional butterflies in stomach
nausea
strong food cravings
losing weight even with more food
clumsy
hair and nails seem to be growing faster
waking up at night with legs and arms asleep
cry alot
wanting to clean more often
people have been bringing up the topic of pregnancy who never talk about it

negative $1 preg test from the dollar store
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Okay. The 42 year old here again. I had a chemical pregnancy. I was 5 days late with my period. Now it's the next month and I feel pregnant again. I am now a week late. The home pregnancy tests are coming back negative. Not sure what to think.
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I feel kinda the same. My stomach started to feel really tight, so I though that maybe I might be pregnant because my stomach never felt that way. And than 2 days later my period started. It was not a light period, just normal as I usually have. During the period my stomach still was feeling tight. My mood changed. I've been feeling tired before and upset(my usual mood before the period starts), but now I noticed I feel like I have a little bit more energy and I'm really positive. My period is over, but my stomach still feels unusually tight, the right of my lower stomach sometimes kinda hurts, I've noticed I started feeling nauseous in the morning or when I'm hungry, and my stomach started to feel weird, sometimes my upper stomach hurts. One time I woke up during the night to go to the bathroom and my upper stomach started hurting so much that I had to drink water. Maybe it's just me, but I feel more emotional: when I watch a movie I want to cry, or when my husband says something nice to me.
I was wondering if you can be pregnant and still have your period? I haven't made any tests yet because it seems kinda ridiculous because I had my period.
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Boy, am I glad I stumbled upon this blog! I've always had regular periods, whether I was on the pill or not. My cycle always comes every 24 days. Well, last month it was very irregular. At first, I thought it was because I had just gotten off of the pill (Loestrin FE) in January. I had problems w/ having a cycle every 3-4 days. Anyway, My breast got tender, my moods got worse, my stomach tightened, constipation set in and I started burping like crazy. Finally my cycle came and it was abnormal. The first two days I only had light pink spots (not even enough to even need a pad). The next four days it appeared like a regular cycle. Three weeks ago I started having chronic lower back pain. Now I'm going into my second month of pregnancy symptoms and my tests are still coming back negative. Oh yeah, not I'm constantly passing gas! My cycle is three days late (based on my normal cycle), I went to the restroom and saw a faint pink spot when I wiped. A couple of hours later I had no coloring at all when I wiped (sorry if too much information). To make matters worse, my boyfriend has been noticeably distant since Feb. 6 which would've been when I've conceived. I really do want a baby, but I don't think that I'm delusional and making stuff up. I am calling in the morning to schedule a blood test and ultrasound. I know my body and the constant back pain, burping, and breast tenderness is a red flag that something is going on. I pray it's a baby, but if not...
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Hi. I am a 30 year old female with the same things going on. I have two children already. (4 and 9). I have had lower back pain, fatigue, nausea(like 7 mos. ago), lower abdominal cramping, emotionally not stable, two unusual periods, and the biggest thing is...that I feel "fetal movement".(which would put me at LEAST 13 weeks...the only problem is I have no tightening of abdominal area AT ALL!! When I lay down on my back my belly is flat and squishy. NOT HARD AT ALL!!) Being preg. twice before I know the feeling a baby moving in my belly. However, two neg. pregnancy tests is making think I'm a little crazy. My GYN. (over the phone) seems to think it could be my thyroid, anemia, or "hormonal changes". They have requested a blood test to check for pregnancy though and I went today for all my blood work. My other two pregnancies were completely normal. (No periods, hardening belly, ...etc.) I don't know if it's possible, to have other pregnancies with no bleeding at all and one that has almost normal periods. I am so confused and wish this would all just end. I have heard of "phantom pregnancies" or "chemical pregnancies". But I don't think that is the case. I didn't want to be pregnant. Meaning I wasn't trying. But also wouldn't mind having another one. So, I know alot of "phantom preg." is due to women convincing themselves that they are, when in fact they aren't. I have been battling with myself on if I am or not. Well, like I said...Had my blood test done today. Will update everyone on the results!!!
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Hi. i thot i was the only one being troubled on this but this site has been very helpful. Am 34 and trying to get pregnant. i had sex with my boyfriend twice during the time i was ovulating. after two weeks on my first trial i had my period. they were almost 4 days early than calculated and very light. havent had such period as they are normally heavy especially at night. but these ones were rather strange and lasted for 3 days. had sex again the next month and 6 days later started feeling pms which lasted for two weeks. i thot was i was prego. was feeling extremely tired and sick in the morning. no vomiting. feeling very hungry. then my periods later came 4 days late and were heavy. i feel backache, watery discharge and abit of tight tummy. never been pregn ant before, i did urine test b4 my last period and were negative. todate am wondering if iam pregnant. cant go for blood test. doc will think i am crazy. please talk to me may be it will help. Tango charlie
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Hi, I just found out I am 5 weeks along. Today I got what seems like a normal period. Medium flow, a little cramping.
I went to the E.R. and they did a blood test to make sure I was pregnant and it wasn't a false positive on my home tests.
I tested positive. They think either I am still pregnant, or I miscarried, but they don't know. And I have to wait until wed/thr to take a home test again and only then can I really know.

I am kind of hysterical at the moment. I am just devastated, this is my first and we were so happy. And I just have this horrible feeling that when the doc says "it's most likely a miscarriage.. but we don't know" that they are really just covering their a$$es and I probably did in fact have one.

I haven't read through every post on here yet, but I will, and I hope there is some hope out there for me, and that some women have had red blood and still went full term.
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hey all
problem: unprotected sex end of march-totally in ovulation period, I know, not smart.
strange period with two days delay in April. now 11 days delayed period, negative test result. felt dizzy most of the time last month. breast little larger (I already have kind of big ones) and weight gain even though I do sports and I am careful in eating....
I am partying a lot because I just finished school, that means alcohol and I am a coffee addicted, but I tuned everything down even if I feel stupid because the test is negative. shall I do one more?
argh! that would be a disaster....
please tell me that it is not possible to have negative test and be pregnanT!
thanks!
L.
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I had sex last April 5. And I had my period on time last April 25. And I also got my period on time last May 20 ( My Cycle is 25 Days). So, I had my period 2 times since April 5, could I still be pregnant?. I'm so scared because I'm only 15 years old, please I need you answer.
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Hey there guys..

Im so glad i googled this topic.. my symptoms are as follows..

* Constant Nausea
* Fatigue (i sleep on my esk at work even)
* Abdomenal cramping
* Movement in my "womb"
* Weight gain (especially around my abdomenal area)
* Back aches
* Sore breasts and blue extremely visible veins on my brests. plus darkening around the nipple area which have suddenly become sore
* Mood swings (i pick a fight with my boyfriend almost all the time.)
* Weird food cravings
* Nausea towards food i previously liked
* Constant thirst

But..

* Two negative home urine tests
* Monthly irregular bleeding

I tuly believe im pregant but scared to go check just in case im not, i also know that if i don't go, the bleeding could be serious and i'll never know.. so im gonna swallow up whatever i need to and go, this week.. will tell you all how it went, please wish me luck. and goodluck to u too!
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