Please can anyone help, found this site trying to find ans.
I am 49 and will be 50 in 4 weeks time, 6yrs ago I had a pollunary embolisum and sarcoidois, which I was told due to treatment and sterods I would not beable to get pregnant, hoped and prayed may be a mircle could happen, but gave up on that and lost faith it would ever happen. I was told due to the illness I would go into early menopause, once I was told this my periods stopped over 3 years ago. Last month I had discharge, which at the time I thought great my periods might just be coming back, did nothing and it went away, again sad and disappointed, but just carried on, then it felt like I had a little small ball, tommy started to grown, but I never said a word to my husban, as I know how wouldn't believe it was his, 2 yrs ago I found out my husband cheated on me, broke my heart, but because of my hurt and anga toward him, I just wanted to be left alone, cried all the time, now we are trying to work things out and he asked me had there been anyone, he know I have been indoors with depression, only my doctor who wanted me to take more drugs which I refused, I started to pray and now I'm over that bridge, here I am with another. I feel pregnant, had the little ball feeling and this time my smoach is so much bigger then last time, this was for the last two weeks, the hot flush slowed down and I'm not as hot during the day as before, only at night time, but my night sweats are not as they where, all these changes, I feel as if I need to bear down, my low back is arched all the time as it feels more comfortable to sit on the edge of the upright chairs. but this morning I felt a little sharp pain toward my left ovary and now the little feeling of the ball has gone, the area below is nolonger hard as it was for the last few weeks, my tommy is soft. I'm not getting the stretch tommy feeling any more as beford, my tommy was just feeling like it needs to expand, more at night than during the day. but I have no pain, no bleed. could I have been pregnant from last month on not really know, and now its gone, I wished I could have the courage to take the test, but the disappointment I feel may just upset me again. also if I am not pregnant, I'm so, so, worried something else is wrong. Please if anyone has had the same please for the love of god, get intouch.
Because of your age and because your periods have already stopped (if I understand correctly), I think you should see a doctor about your issue. Generally it is difficult for menopause-aged women to get pregnant, and especially if you have had illness which decrease your fertility it seems like a very, very small chance you would be pregnant. Having not gone through menopause yet I'm not sure if the symptoms you've described are normal or expected, but because of the stress it's causing you and because of your health history I would recommend a trip to the doctor. From everything I know and what you've said, however, I would say you're not pregnant.