hi, i have the same problem as all you guys. i want to get rid of this problem as soon as possible because its preventing me from any sexual activity. im afraid that the pain will be too much to bear if my hypersensitive penis touches anything. does anyone who has/had a hypersensitive penis know if sex hurts? also, right now im trying the lubrication thing in the shower and trying to de-sensitive it, but it is going very slowly and is still causing me tremendous pain whenver i touch it. should i just be persistent?
one last thing, does anyone know how to keep the foreskin retracted from the head? i want to keep the head unprotected so i can get used to it, but the foreskin always retracts back.
thanks.
one last thing, does anyone know how to keep the foreskin retracted from the head? i want to keep the head unprotected so i can get used to it, but the foreskin always retracts back.
thanks.
im 15 and suffer da sam problem as all of u but iv had sex and it didnt cause any pain but i wasnt aware i had a problem then and i am aware now i think its just a confidence thing but canot b sure!!!but anyone know how u get rid of this problem???is it possible to get rid of it by strerching eceryday??
I'm 33 and live in the US. I never realized so many ppl had the same problem I have. I self diagnosed as having phimosis as I had a really tough time touching any part of the glans (head) of my penis. It made my sex life miserable and finally just 5 days ago, I got circumcised. I can tell you there is two different types of pain. The pain of the cut, and the pain of having the head exposed.
The pain of having the head exposed was incredible. Almost immediately I believed I had made a HUGE mistake. Anytime ANYTHING touched ANY part of my head I went to my knees. I didn't have my foreskin to rely on anymore (as my previous defense was to shake my penis vigorously until the foreskin was hanging well over the head) and I started to panic.
For the last 4 days I have been so afraid of something touching my head, that I have barely slept more than 6 total hours since my surgery. Last night was the turning point. I woke up with the very tip (the pee hole) stuck to my shorts. I had to peel it off and I thought I would pass out from the pain. I laid there literally wanting to die than to have to endure this anymore. Exhaustion was making my whole body have "starburst" type pains especially in my head.
I went into another room and proceeded to probe different areas of my penis. "Feeling" out what was tolerable and what bothered me. On areas that were so so, I touched them more and more, pushing the boundaries of what was comfortable. I would grab as much of my penis as I could in kind of the same fashion as I did when preparing to masturbate. This natural "reflex" type grip made the fear of anticipating pain less as my mind was used to this action. Hard to explain, but I really believed my main problem was in my head.
For about an hour I progressively got more and more bold. Making it hurt and thinking about what exactly it was I was feeling. Once I stopped, the pain would stop, and I realized I was in control. I did it over and over. I put my thumb and index finger from both hands on either side of the head and lifted it until it was "looking" at me. I have to say that most of my head is still black and blue with bruises, but I was able to do this until it became no more than pushing on a sore area and not a hot bed of nerves.
After all the manipulation, I put on a pair of my tightest underwear and proceeded to let the underwear cause the pain. I moved my legs until something hurt or I felt a spike of pain, then I would stop. The more I thought about the pain, the more I tried to feel the pleasure in it. I'm not masochistic, far from it, but your head is really sensitive now and those nerves are there for pleasure. They are just used to having a very thick layer of insulation keeping them from feeling the full effects of it. For about the last 4 hours I have been wearing underwear and shorts and I can walk, sit and stand with very little, to almost no unpleasantness. Before then, I walked around naked to avoid anything touching me. If I can do it in an hour, you can do it too!
IF YOU DON'T READ ANY OF THE PREVIOUS, READ THIS:
Bottom line is: in just over 1 hour, I went from not being able to have a q-tip touch my penis, to putting on a tight pair of underwear and a tight pair of blue jeans. You can do it too!
The pain of having the head exposed was incredible. Almost immediately I believed I had made a HUGE mistake. Anytime ANYTHING touched ANY part of my head I went to my knees. I didn't have my foreskin to rely on anymore (as my previous defense was to shake my penis vigorously until the foreskin was hanging well over the head) and I started to panic.
For the last 4 days I have been so afraid of something touching my head, that I have barely slept more than 6 total hours since my surgery. Last night was the turning point. I woke up with the very tip (the pee hole) stuck to my shorts. I had to peel it off and I thought I would pass out from the pain. I laid there literally wanting to die than to have to endure this anymore. Exhaustion was making my whole body have "starburst" type pains especially in my head.
I went into another room and proceeded to probe different areas of my penis. "Feeling" out what was tolerable and what bothered me. On areas that were so so, I touched them more and more, pushing the boundaries of what was comfortable. I would grab as much of my penis as I could in kind of the same fashion as I did when preparing to masturbate. This natural "reflex" type grip made the fear of anticipating pain less as my mind was used to this action. Hard to explain, but I really believed my main problem was in my head.
For about an hour I progressively got more and more bold. Making it hurt and thinking about what exactly it was I was feeling. Once I stopped, the pain would stop, and I realized I was in control. I did it over and over. I put my thumb and index finger from both hands on either side of the head and lifted it until it was "looking" at me. I have to say that most of my head is still black and blue with bruises, but I was able to do this until it became no more than pushing on a sore area and not a hot bed of nerves.
After all the manipulation, I put on a pair of my tightest underwear and proceeded to let the underwear cause the pain. I moved my legs until something hurt or I felt a spike of pain, then I would stop. The more I thought about the pain, the more I tried to feel the pleasure in it. I'm not masochistic, far from it, but your head is really sensitive now and those nerves are there for pleasure. They are just used to having a very thick layer of insulation keeping them from feeling the full effects of it. For about the last 4 hours I have been wearing underwear and shorts and I can walk, sit and stand with very little, to almost no unpleasantness. Before then, I walked around naked to avoid anything touching me. If I can do it in an hour, you can do it too!
IF YOU DON'T READ ANY OF THE PREVIOUS, READ THIS:
Bottom line is: in just over 1 hour, I went from not being able to have a q-tip touch my penis, to putting on a tight pair of underwear and a tight pair of blue jeans. You can do it too!
Same here for me. I had phimosis and had to go to circumcision. Now, the collar near the head, where the stitches used to be, seems to be very sensitive and I have difficulties enduring long enough to get my girlfriend to orgasm.
I hope that the sensitivity will eventually perish but it has been 2 months now and I'm starting to worry. Is there some kind of analgesic that I can put on or is there any other way to reduce the sensitivity? I've tries some techniques like slowing down when close but they don't work for me.
Also, we only started to have sex for she was a virgin until recently, and I don't know is it common for girls not to achieve orgasms in the beginning?
I hope that the sensitivity will eventually perish but it has been 2 months now and I'm starting to worry. Is there some kind of analgesic that I can put on or is there any other way to reduce the sensitivity? I've tries some techniques like slowing down when close but they don't work for me.
Also, we only started to have sex for she was a virgin until recently, and I don't know is it common for girls not to achieve orgasms in the beginning?
Same here for me. I had phimosis and had to go to circumcision. Now, the collar near the head, where the stitches used to be, seems to be very sensitive and I have difficulties enduring long enough to get my girlfriend to orgasm.
I hope that the sensitivity will eventually perish but it has been 2 months now and I'm starting to worry. Is there some kind of analgesic that I can put on or is there any other way to reduce the sensitivity? I've tries some techniques like slowing down when close but they don't work for me. The problem is not the head but the frenulum and the collar right before the head.
Also, we only started to have sex for she was a virgin until recently, and I don't know is it common for girls not to achieve orgasms in the beginning?
I hope that the sensitivity will eventually perish but it has been 2 months now and I'm starting to worry. Is there some kind of analgesic that I can put on or is there any other way to reduce the sensitivity? I've tries some techniques like slowing down when close but they don't work for me. The problem is not the head but the frenulum and the collar right before the head.
Also, we only started to have sex for she was a virgin until recently, and I don't know is it common for girls not to achieve orgasms in the beginning?
actually just pull the skin back and tap on it for about 2 minutes straight . its going to hurt like sh*t but just keep at it. after that dip ur penis in warm water with 1 table spoon of salt. trust me it dosent hurt but if i does just go with the pain that means it works. then walk around with it out of the foreskin in ur boxers this will sting but the pain goes away after awhile. ive been doing this 4 about 3 days now and tapping it dosent hurt as much anymore. but at night tap it again for 2 more minutes. then open rinse warm water on it. put baby oil on it then put back foreskin on top of the baby oil. now u sleep and in morning tap it and ull feel a difference trust me :-)))!!
hi im in the same predicament. im 17 and am not circumcised. ever since i could remember, my penis has been very sensitive. i couldnt even pull back the foreskin because it would really hurt. however i ofund out that if u keep at it, the more you will be able to pull it back without it hurting
Don't worry. Like many have told you, this is totally normal. Your penis head is hypersensitive, and hurts when touched. Luckily, you can masturbate without worrying because you don't have to pull the foreskin back to stimulate it. Also, if the penis head is dry, it hurts a lot more than when it's lubricated and when your pre-cum is inside your foreskin and acting as its own stimulant. But not at first. Before you go to touching your head, remember to always let water sprinkle on your penis head while showering. If your shower is too rough, simply put your and over the water and let it bounce off onto your penis. It is uncomfortable at first, but no pain means no gain. Do this for a week and you will realize that it's less uncomfortable, and now you can touch your penis head with no pain when wet or lubricated. And eventually, while dry.
I'm 14 and still have a little sensitivity, but it's gradually lessened over the time I have followed these steps. Good luck out there.