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They did blood and urine test, pretty sure its NOT chlamydia!
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Me and my fiancé went on a v day vacation. We had rough sex the first night. The next morning i was spotting a very small amount. When i wiped it was gone. Soon after i got the excruciating pain. It was hard to walk. The pain died down. We had sex again but gently, and as soon as i got up the pain was unbearable. I felt my anus and it was contracting. So me being exploratory i put my finger in my vagina and as soon as i touched my cervix i thought i was going to die. So need less to say i think it's because the cervix is traumatized. It can't stand to be touched. Medical explanation, i have no clue. This may seem a little graphic and explicit but try to touch it and it hurts you know it is related to in course.
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Constipation is correct.
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I'm a36 yr old lady and also been suffering with these symptoms for the last 3 years (not on aregular basis) the pain is like nothing I've experienced before and always comes after I've climaxed leaving my partner unfinished shall we put it :( I get servere cramps like feelings in my lower abdomen shooting pains up my rectum area, cannot walk a school feels like my virgina is gonna fall out of me I've seen 2 diff gyno even been to a&e n had several tests at first they thought I had obtain cysts due to the pain I was in but everythin come back clear, how can so many women be suffering the same symptoms but GPS have no answers ??
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This sound like me last night ! I needed to fart before sex and i didnt ! Result with a huge pain in my uretus and my back side. And i vomit straight after the intercourse . And blood came out ! Thats is not related but the strain of vomiting damage my eosophage and blood came out ! So gross and worrying !! . But gas will be the answer of my pain . This morning the pain is gone but i can still feel something is not right !! Joy of been a woman !!
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i agree with this, the times ive had it i feel like this
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I think I'm pregnant (prob like 3-4weeks) and have been gassy and bloated so my husband and I had sex and after that, I went to the kitchen to make some dinner and as I bent down to grab something in the fridge I had the same exact thing! Sharp pain in my rectum and then towards my lower abdominal and felt like puking. It felt like a bubble of fart got stuck in my anus and wouldn't come out because it hurt to squeeze it out. My husband couldn't even touch me cause I was in pain. So I laid down but it was soooo hard because of the pain but once I laid down it got a little better as long and nothing bumped into me. Then I googled and I read all of y'alls comments and I decided to take a hot/warm bath to relax my rectum muscles. I got out and felt a lot better then like 10 minutes afterwards I passed gas and now feeling normal again after an hour! Thank you all so much! Good thing I didn't go to the hospital for this minor thing. I hope this helps some people too. Thanks again!
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Hi, I experience it quite often. It's not due to sex. It's rectal contractions. Proctalgia. Just as spasms of neck muscles cause headaches, spasms of the pelvic muscles causes proctalgia. Proctalgia is pain due to a spasm of the pelvic floor muscles, the muscles of the anal sphincter, or the muscles of the rectum. This causes severe stabbing pain like a knife sticking into the rectum. it's an embarrassing and isolating feeling. I try to lie still and relax when I feel it coming on or sit on the toilet and relax my body. Some times it's short but usually very seldom. Whatever, u do don't attempt to pass your bowel or gas. It's just causing more strain and contractions. Hope this helps. You're not alone.
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Omg this is absolutely correct!
Ladies! Please listen! The only way to solve the problem is lie down and slowly but surely pass gas you will feel better!
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It's not hemorrhoids!

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This is what I figured out - and yes, it sounds gross and totally non-sexy - but these types of symptoms can occur when you have sex when you are constipated or even just holding in gas. The pressure and normal muscle contractions of sex makes your body reverse the digestive process, pushing gas back up the intestines. This is not supposed to happen so it can be very painful in many areas of the body because your body is fighting directions. How to avoid it - do NOT have sex when you are constipated or feeling gassy. If it does occur, lay in bed slowly altering body positions and give it time to pass. Do not have sex again for a few days, until things are completely back to normal. Yeah, it is kindof gross, and unlikely - but this is what I have come up with
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Ok I have had so much pain to! Right after having intercourse n it would get WORSE when I'd try to poop i'd be holding the toilet slappin my stomach but that i think dosen't really help n might not have anything to do with sex i think its gass issues n constipation now during sex when id get turned on i wouldnt feel so much pain maybe cause i'm focused on how good at that moment it feels but honestly when ever he would try to go harder i'd push him back saying it hurts babe it hurts bad don't go so hard n b4 we would role play sooo he thought im acting but i was dead serious sometimes men find that to be attractive when ur pushing them or squeezing them lol (Him thinking out loud ("like omg my penis is so big I'm hurting her").. ( me- yea ok buddy i think i either have a cyst or cause we rarly have sex its hurting me no one should feel this pain after sex i have 3 kids n 2 of them are boys 5 and 6 yrs old so it's crazy sex still hurts...
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I've recently had the same pain twice. Both times I was gassy before sex. And the pain while trying to use the bathroom was deadly. I've found that doing squats (10+) before getting on the toilet will help you pass stool and while using it I rocked back and forth while breathing in when rocking back (will feel pain) and breathing out while rocking foward (you will feel NOTHING!!. While able to push hard and open up without pain.) So breath in deep and let pain be your friend because believe me once you start pushing all that gas and booboo out, you will start feeling better. And the pain starts to die down. Day by day (not overnight). Plus the squats are great for the butt. Do ab exercise before bed and in the morning to help eliminate the gas. You will be pooting(good) just breath in deep before you do.
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The same exact symptoms have happened to me several time since and yes super disgusting and unbelievable at first but it is due to constipation/gas. I've had times where I am in SCREAMING pain in fetal position, sweat profously, throw up and almost pass out. I've learned to just pop a norco (not recommended as it can cause further constipation) and just fall asleep. I find that eating garlic and change of diet to eating healthy usually does this to me not sure if it's the same for everyone else.
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Feeling exactly like this right now. IN SO MUCH FREAKING PAIN. I've had two kids, my husband is large and does hit my cervix. It happened to me for the first time about 5 months ago on our Disney vacation. But tonight was execurating. It literally felt like I was having labor contractions. Like took me back to having my daughter. Taking my breath away, on my tippie toes and hard to breathe as I'm screetching in pain and my husband is worried sick. What the hell is going on here?! I just spend the last 45 mins in pain!
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Pain stayed for a week but it is due to gas. We have to eat better cording to our digestive systems.
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