My bf and I have had sex twice now, but before hand he had fingered me multiple times. The first time we had sex I bled a little not to much at all, but this second time there was much more. My parents would flip if they knew I had had sex even though I'm over 18 so I can't ask my mom, and if I go to the doctor she might find out since she's on my PHI form plus I don't have health insurance since I'm a college student. I'm really nervous. Please help!
You could have only partially torn your hymen (the piece of skin that tears when you lose your virginity causing the first time to hurt). Some girls only partially tear it the first time and it gets completely torn sometime after that.