Hi all, i have been with my gf bout 3 years now
She always loved it when i ate her ass and stick my finger in it, but my size (18cm long/4cm dia) scared her
Last year we split for 6 months, we both had other partners, hers had a very small penis, she tried anal with him an absolutely loved it, after that day she only had anal all the time with him the months they were together
After 6 months we started talking again and we are back together for 4 months now, but it is very bad sexually
She is still afraid of my penis, even though she had anal intercourse exclusively for 6 months
When we do vaginally, it just makes her ass so turned on to a point that she has to stop and push me out because she has so much desire for anal, but every time we try it fails, cause she cant relax
We tried toys, i bought her a huge buttplug, almost as wide as my penis, the first days she would work it inside her till one day i measured it and told her its as wide as me, from that day she didnt want it anymore
It seems she is just afraid of my penis and anything that is that wide
So i am desperate, can this be fixed?
We only had succes once, she went crazy that night and told me she never felt so good
But after that never again, and vaginally she does not enjoy it
Can this be fixed, or should i just give up?
Just need to know, i like to cuddle, but i need some hot sex too, and i am afraid this could make one of us cheat, we are both moody all the time now
Please help
She always loved it when i ate her ass and stick my finger in it, but my size (18cm long/4cm dia) scared her
Last year we split for 6 months, we both had other partners, hers had a very small penis, she tried anal with him an absolutely loved it, after that day she only had anal all the time with him the months they were together
After 6 months we started talking again and we are back together for 4 months now, but it is very bad sexually
She is still afraid of my penis, even though she had anal intercourse exclusively for 6 months
When we do vaginally, it just makes her ass so turned on to a point that she has to stop and push me out because she has so much desire for anal, but every time we try it fails, cause she cant relax
We tried toys, i bought her a huge buttplug, almost as wide as my penis, the first days she would work it inside her till one day i measured it and told her its as wide as me, from that day she didnt want it anymore
It seems she is just afraid of my penis and anything that is that wide
So i am desperate, can this be fixed?
We only had succes once, she went crazy that night and told me she never felt so good
But after that never again, and vaginally she does not enjoy it
Can this be fixed, or should i just give up?
Just need to know, i like to cuddle, but i need some hot sex too, and i am afraid this could make one of us cheat, we are both moody all the time now
Please help
There isnt a whole lot you can do for this situation but stay determined shell eventually get used to it thats the only advice I can give you,and also go slow and use lots of lube silicon based is really good