Hi,i dont have a detachable shower head, but i wrap a hand washer/towel over the top and tie it with a hair tie.The water comes out in a strong flow and i tease my clit for a while going in and out of it. I finally lay down and lay underneath so it sprays on my clit and a little but down from that.It feels really good, Then it starts to hurt and get really tender, I have never cummed before and i really want to :) Thanks xx
am a girl too I was woundering the same